In a nightclub, a PUA noticed a girl who seemed to be into dancing. He joined her on the dance floor and started doing some really unique dance moves that combined break - dancing and salsa. After getting her attention, he told her about the time he traveled to a foreign country and learned those moves from local street dancers. This story was a DHV because it showed his ability to adapt, his sense of adventure, and his cool skills on the dance floor.
At a concert, a PUA was near a girl who was really into the music. He started chatting with her and then told her a story about how he once got backstage passes to a similar concert by accident. He was looking for the bathroom and ended up in the backstage area. There, he met the lead singer and they had a short conversation. This story demonstrated his ability to be in the right place at the right time and his interesting experiences, which are all DHV in the PUA context.
One funny DHV (Demonstration of Higher Value) story could be about a guy at a party. He started juggling some apples that were on the table when people were just chatting casually. Everyone was amazed and started gathering around him. He then told a joke while still juggling, like 'Why don't scientists trust atoms? Because they make up everything.' This showed his sense of humor and his unique skill, which are both DHV traits in the PUA (Pick - Up Artist) world.
Well, simply put, use them to show your positive qualities. For instance, if you have a Dhv story about helping others, like working in a soup kitchen, it shows your kindness. Just share it casually in conversation.
One great Dhv (Demonstration of Higher Value) story could be about your travels. For example, 'I was in Thailand once and got to volunteer at an elephant sanctuary. It was amazing to be so close to those gentle giants and help out in their care. I learned so much about their behavior and how important conservation is.'
Sure. Once, a guy was at a party. He told a story about how he rescued a kitten from a tall tree. He described in detail how he climbed up carefully, not minding his new clothes getting dirty, and gently brought the scared kitten down. Everyone was amazed and saw him as a hero.
Here's one. A PUA newbie went to a party. He saw a girl he liked and tried to show off his 'mysterious' side. He just stood there, trying to look cool, but accidentally tripped over his own feet when the girl looked at him. Instead of being embarrassed, he just laughed and said 'I was just testing if you were paying attention.' The girl found it hilarious and they started chatting.
Sure. There was a guy who tried to use PUA techniques on a girl at a coffee shop. He started with a cheesy pickup line, but the girl just laughed and said she'd heard that one a million times. Instead of being discouraged, he joined in on the laughter and then they ended up having a really nice chat about how bad pickup lines can be.
Well, here's another. I once participated in a local charity event where I was in charge of organizing a big part of it. I managed to get many sponsors and volunteers involved, which demonstrates my leadership and social skills.
One success story could be a guy who was really shy. He learned PUA techniques like active listening. He started conversations with girls by asking open - ended questions about their interests. Soon, he built good rapport and started dating a girl who shared his love for books.
One funny DHV story is about a woman who went camping alone. She faced a bear but instead of running away, she made loud noises and waved her arms. The bear got scared and ran off. It shows her courage and quick - thinking ability.
Sure. There's a story where a PUA newbie decided to challenge himself by approaching ten women in one day. He was really nervous at first but he pushed through. He used humor in his approaches. For instance, he made a joke about the weather when he started the conversation. By the end of the day, he had three phone numbers and two dates lined up. It shows that with determination and the right approach, success can be achieved.