'Push' by Sapphire also fits this category. It's about a young girl, Precious, who endures all kinds of abuse, including emotional abuse from her parents. The book explores her journey to find some sense of self - worth and break free from the cycle of abuse.
'We Need to Talk About Kevin' by Lionel Shriver is another notable one. It's about a mother trying to come to terms with her son's violent actions and in the process, it reveals a lot about the complex and often emotionally abusive relationship between them.
'Domestic Violets' by Matthew Norman also touches on this theme. The main character has to deal with his own father's abusive behavior which has influenced his view of relationships. The book shows how past experiences of abuse can seep into new relationships, even in an indirect way.
Another good one is 'The Girl on the Train' by Paula Hawkins. The relationship in the story has elements of abuse. The female lead is in a relationship that involves gaslighting and emotional abuse, which is gradually uncovered as the story progresses. It's a great example of how abuse can be depicted in a fictional mystery setting.
One book is 'Gone Girl' by Gillian Flynn. It shows a complex and somewhat abusive relationship. The characters' power play and mind games are quite disturbing yet fascinating. It makes readers think about how relationships can go wrong.
'Fifty Shades of Grey' is also often considered to have elements of an abusive relationship within the fictional context. Christian Grey has controlling and dominating behavior towards Anastasia Steele which can be seen as a form of abuse, although the book is also a romance. However, it has sparked a lot of debate about healthy relationships.
One such book is 'A Child Called It' by Dave Pelzer. It's a harrowing account of a child's experience in an abusive family. The protagonist endures extreme physical and emotional abuse from his mother. Another is 'The Girl on the Train' which also touches on aspects of an abusive relationship within a complex web of mystery and unreliable narration.
Another good read is 'Gone Girl' by Gillian Flynn. While it's not just about an abusive relationship in a traditional sense, there are elements of psychological abuse and manipulation between the two main characters that are very well - explored, making the reader question the nature of their relationship.
In some cases, it might be necessary to take a break from the relationship for a while to protect your own mental health. This doesn't mean the end of the relationship, but it gives you time to think and also gives her a chance to realize the seriousness of the situation. You can also surround yourself with a support system of friends and family who can give you advice and emotional support during this difficult time.
One story I heard was about a man whose wife constantly put him down in front of others. She would make sarcastic remarks about his job, his appearance, and his hobbies. For example, when he talked about a project at work he was excited about, she said 'Oh, like anyone really cares about that. You're not that important at your job.' This made him feel worthless and less confident over time.
A classic example could be 'Jane Eyre' by Charlotte Bronte. Mr. Rochester's initial behavior towards Jane can be seen as somewhat manipulative and borderline abusive in the context of their power dynamic. He hides his past marriage from her, which is a form of emotional abuse when it is finally revealed, causing Jane great distress.