Stories about hubby having something in a private situation that the wife doesn't know - is this a common plot in literature?

It would likely have a very negative impact on the relationship. Secrets in a relationship, especially ones of this nature, can break the trust that is fundamental to a healthy marriage. Once the wife discovers it, she may feel betrayed, deceived, and it could lead to a great deal of anger and resentment.

I don't think such stories are very common in mainstream literature. Most literature focuses on positive values and healthy relationships. However, in some niche or tabloid - like fictional works, there might be such extreme and disturbing plots, but they are not the norm.

One common scenario could be the husband having a secret hobby or passion that he hides from his wife.

Definitely not appropriate. Privacy is a fundamental aspect of any relationship. The hubby may have shared things with his wife in the confidence of their relationship. By sharing those stories, the wife is breaking that trust. It could also make the hubby feel exposed and vulnerable, which is not healthy for the relationship. This kind of behavior might stem from a lack of respect for boundaries or a need for attention, but it's wrong either way.

Yes, there are some. In some classic novels, there might be plots where a wife seems to 'cheat' in a sense for the good of her hubby. For example, in certain stories where the wife might lie to protect her husband from a dangerous situation which could be seen as a form of 'cheating' in terms of honesty but is done out of love. However, this is not the common form of cheating in the modern sense.

Yes, it can be quite common. In a relationship, partners often share stories as a way to communicate. A wife watching hubby stories is a natural extension of that sharing. It shows that she values his perspective and what he has to say.

Yes, they can be relatively common. Often, it stems from insecurities or misunderstandings in a relationship. For example, if a wife starts acting differently, like being more secretive about her phone or her outings, the hubby might be tempted to spy to figure out what's going on.

It's not a common trope in literature overall. But in some works that explore the darker side of human relationships, it can be found. In these stories, the hubby's surprise can be a catalyst for various things. It might lead to him seeking revenge, or it could cause him to question his own worth and what he did wrong in the relationship. It also often delves into the wife's motives for having a lover, which can be due to dissatisfaction in the marriage, a search for excitement, or other complex reasons.

Discovering your wife has a boyfriend can be a shock. One option could be to seek professional help, like a marriage counselor. They can help both of you express your emotions in a more productive way and find solutions. It's important not to act rashly, for example, getting angry immediately might only push her further away. Instead, focus on rebuilding trust and fixing the underlying issues in your relationship.

Well, in general, it's not considered very proper in a traditional sense. Most relationships are based on mutual respect and propriety. Sharing overly sexual or vulgar stories might cross the line of good taste and respect for each other. But in some modern, extremely liberal relationships, they might think it's just a form of open communication. However, this should be a consensual choice between the two partners.