You could start by sharing a story of your own. This can make them feel more comfortable and show them that it's okay to open up. Also, praise any small efforts they make, like if they start with just a few words, tell them it's a great start.
Be patient and give them time. Don't rush them into telling the story. Let them start when they feel ready.
You could ask your sibling if they can wait a little while until you're not so busy.
You should listen because it could be really interesting. Your sibling might have had some unique experiences or just a great imagination.
One thing you can do is to join in the story - but in a way that helps them keep going. For example, if they start a story about a magical forest, you could say 'I bet there were some really cool animals in that forest, right?' This not only shows your interest but also gives them a little nudge to continue. Also, if they seem a bit nervous, you can tell them a short, simple story first to make them feel more at ease about storytelling.
First, make sure your female friend feels safe and supported. Encourage her to trust her instincts. If she feels uncomfortable, she should distance herself from the person. You can also be around more often to act as a deterrent. If the behavior persists, it may be necessary to involve other mutual friends or even take more serious steps like reporting the person if the actions cross the line into harassment.
Tell them firmly that this is a private and vulgar matter that should not be shared publicly. Encourage them to focus on more positive and respectful conversations.
You should firmly tell them that this is inappropriate and unacceptable. Encourage them to stop spreading such unethical stories.
First, make sure the story is true. If it is, inform the principal or other relevant school administrators. They can handle the situation, perhaps by having a conversation with the person involved or taking disciplinary action if necessary. It's important to safeguard the integrity of the school and the well - being of the teacher.
It depends on the nature of the stories. If the stories are positive and the kids are just sharing cute or inspiring tales about their siblings in a harmless way, it might not be unethical. However, if the stories are private or embarrassing and the kids are selling them without permission, it's not okay.
Once, my friend came to visit us at home. My shy wife was a bit nervous at first. She barely said a word and just quietly served tea. But as the day went on, my friend started sharing some really interesting travel stories. My wife gradually got more comfortable and even joined in the conversation a bit, sharing her own small adventures from long ago. It was a sweet moment seeing her open up around my friend.
Maybe you can find someone else to tell your story to, like a more trusted friend or a family member. They might be more understanding and keep your story confidential.