It's not common at all. The vast majority of Filipino nannies are highly professional and loving towards the children they take care of. However, just like in any profession, there might be a few bad apples that get more attention because of the drama they create. But in general, it's unfair to assume that these horror stories are a common occurrence.
One horror story could be about a Filipino nanny who was secretly stealing from the family. She took small but valuable items like jewelry over time without the family noticing at first. When they finally caught her, it was a shock as they had trusted her completely.
No, they are not common. Just like in any culture, most marriages are based on love, respect, and mutual understanding. However, because of the international attention Filipino brides sometimes get, the few negative stories tend to be more publicized.
One common theme is the presence of supernatural entities. Ghosts, demons, and other spirits are frequently featured. Another theme is revenge. Often, a wronged spirit comes back to seek vengeance on those who wronged them in life. For example, in stories where someone was murdered unjustly, their spirit will haunt the murderer.
One common element is neglect. Nannies might not pay proper attention to the children, like in the story where the nanny was on her phone and the kids got near dangerous knives. Another is dishonesty, such as when nannies steal from the families they work for. Also, inappropriate behavior like bringing unapproved people to the house can be a common part in these stories.
One common theme is family interference. Filipino families are often close - knit, but this can be a problem in marriages. Family members might meddle in the couple's decisions, like where to live or what jobs to take. It's like they don't respect the couple's boundaries as a new family unit.
One common theme is the supernatural. Creatures like the Aswang, which can transform into different forms, are often featured. Another theme is revenge from the dead. For example, a wronged spirit coming back to haunt those who wronged them. And there's also the theme of cursed places, such as old houses or forests with a dark past.
Filipino office horror stories often involve a sense of dread associated with a particular area in the office, such as an old attic or basement. There's also the recurrence of strange sounds, which could be footsteps or whispers. And a lot of these stories have a connection to the past, maybe a former employee's misfortune or an old event that took place in the building. This connection to the past gives the stories a sense of mystery and makes them even more terrifying. For instance, the story of the haunted storage room where the Filipina worker felt the icy breeze and heard the faint whisper. It seems that the past is somehow lingering in these office spaces, creating a spooky atmosphere for the current employees.
One common element is the presence of ghosts. These are often the spirits of the dead who have unfinished business, like the ghosts in haunted houses. Another is the use of superstition. For example, breaking a mirror or walking under a ladder might bring bad luck related to the horror in the story.
One common horror story is about the issue of financial exploitation. Some brides find that their partners expect them to bear all the household expenses while also sending money back to their families in the Philippines. For example, a friend of mine married a Filipino bride, and he started to restrict her access to money for basic needs like groceries after a while. Another is the cultural misunderstanding. Filipino brides often come from a very family - centered culture. If the husband doesn't understand this and tries to isolate her from her family, it can lead to a lot of emotional distress for the bride.
Some nanny share horror stories include communication breakdowns. For instance, the two families fail to communicate effectively with the nanny about the children's schedules. So the nanny ends up taking the kids to the wrong activities at the wrong times. There can also be issues with the nanny's reliability. One family might discover that the nanny has been cutting corners on care, like not supervising the children properly during playtime. And, unfortunately, there are stories of nannies stealing from the families. This can range from small things like food to more serious items like jewelry or money.