Tag her in relevant and funny stories. But don't overdo it, or it might seem pushy. Maybe once in a while when it really makes sense.
Maybe she's just not that interested in your social media stuff. She might be more focused on her own life or the people she's closer to. Or perhaps she doesn't use the story feature much herself and doesn't think to check others.
First, firmly tell her that this is unacceptable behavior. Then, you can try to engage her in other positive aspects of your relationship with your boyfriend, like his good qualities, his career goals etc. Distract her from this inappropriate focus. You can also limit the information she has access to about your relationship if she continues to be persistent.
First, don't overthink it too much. If you're interested in getting to know her better, you can leave a comment on one of her stories in a light - hearted way. For example, if she posted a picture of a place she visited and you have been there too, you can say 'That place looks amazing! I went there once and [share a short anecdote].' This can open up a dialogue between you two. Also, if you feel comfortable, you can directly ask her if she has any particular reason for always checking your story. But be careful not to come across as too pushy.
You could try to make your stories more interesting. For instance, add some humor or unique perspectives to them.
Aiya, this was simply a classic case of being addicted to novels. It seemed like he needed to tease her a little. Why don't you try to pay attention to the characters or plots that she's most interested in in the novel, and then talk to her about them to let her feel that you're also very interested in them? Or you can remind her to pay attention to the allocation of time and attention. After all, even if you're addicted to novels, you have to pay attention to your health. I hope my suggestion is useful. Good luck! If you need any help, feel free to call me anytime~
First, try to understand her motives. Maybe she had bad experiences in the past or she just loves you so much and is worried. Then, communicate. Say something like 'Mom, I know you care about me, but I need to learn and grow in my relationships on my own. I will come to you if I have problems.' Also, you can ask her to trust your judgment more. If she still oversteps, limit the information you share about your boyfriends with her until she respects your boundaries.
You could try changing the content of your stories. Make them more interesting, for example, by sharing some unique experiences or exciting news.
You could try changing the content of your stories. Make them more interesting and diverse. For instance, if you usually post selfies, add some funny anecdotes or interesting facts along with the pictures.
Just ask her directly in a relaxed and interested way. Say something like, 'Honey, I heard you have a really fun story. I'm all ears!' and give her your full attention.
One way could be through heartfelt communication, expressing your true feelings and listening to her concerns. Also, proving your commitment and growth over time can make a difference.