How can I make an old perv stop looking at me without causing a scene?

One way is to make it clear that you're aware of their inappropriate behavior. You can give them a stern look or cross your arms in a defensive posture. This might make them think twice. Also, carry something like a personal alarm or a whistle. If they come too close or their behavior escalates, you can use it to draw attention.

If an old perv is staring at you, you should immediately remove yourself from the situation if possible. Go to a public place where there are more people, like a store or a busy café.

First of all, trust your instincts. If it makes you feel uneasy, it's a valid feeling. You can start by documenting the incident if you can do it safely. Maybe take a photo of the person from a distance (but be careful not to put yourself in danger). Then, talk to someone in authority. If it's at work, talk to your supervisor. If it's in a public place, like a shopping mall, inform the customer service desk. It's important to take action to protect yourself and make sure this person doesn't continue this inappropriate behavior.

Report the situation to the appropriate authorities, like your workplace supervisor if it's in a work environment, or the security if it's in a public place. You have the right to feel safe and respected.

In some cases, they might be influenced by the media or the society they grew up in, which unfortunately might have given them the wrong idea about how to interact with others. However, none of these reasons excuse their inappropriate behavior.

It could be a lack of respect for personal boundaries. Some people just don't have proper social skills or moral values and act inappropriately.

You should firmly and clearly communicate your discomfort. For example, you can say 'Stop looking at me inappropriately.' If it continues, avoid being alone with this person and consider reporting the behavior to the relevant authorities or your superiors if it's in a workplace or school setting.

Well, to make sense of it, look at the words separately at first. 'Free' could mean many things, like setting someone free from a situation. The 'sister is a perv' part is what makes it complicated. It could be that there's a story going around that is painting the sister in a bad light as a pervert. Maybe it's a rumor, and the person wants to free their sister from the negative impact of that story. It could also be part of a more complex family drama where misunderstandings have led to such a strange - sounding statement.

You could quietly approach her and cover her up, then take her aside to talk privately.

Try to change the subject when she starts to tell the same story. For instance, if she begins, you can quickly say 'Mom, did you hear about this new thing that happened at school?' This will divert her attention and stop her from going into the familiar story. Another option is to introduce her to new stories. Maybe give her a book of short stories and ask her to read them so she has new material.