What should I do if an old perv spends time looking at me?

First of all, trust your instincts. If it makes you feel uneasy, it's a valid feeling. You can start by documenting the incident if you can do it safely. Maybe take a photo of the person from a distance (but be careful not to put yourself in danger). Then, talk to someone in authority. If it's at work, talk to your supervisor. If it's in a public place, like a shopping mall, inform the customer service desk. It's important to take action to protect yourself and make sure this person doesn't continue this inappropriate behavior.

You should firmly and clearly communicate your discomfort. For example, you can say 'Stop looking at me inappropriately.' If it continues, avoid being alone with this person and consider reporting the behavior to the relevant authorities or your superiors if it's in a workplace or school setting.

Report the situation to the appropriate authorities, like your workplace supervisor if it's in a work environment, or the security if it's in a public place. You have the right to feel safe and respected.

In some cases, they might be influenced by the media or the society they grew up in, which unfortunately might have given them the wrong idea about how to interact with others. However, none of these reasons excuse their inappropriate behavior.

Engaging in a task can also be helpful. If you're in a library, start reading a book intently or if you're at a bus stop, focus on looking at the bus schedule. This shows that you're occupied and not interested in their gaze.

One way is to make it clear that you're aware of their inappropriate behavior. You can give them a stern look or cross your arms in a defensive posture. This might make them think twice. Also, carry something like a personal alarm or a whistle. If they come too close or their behavior escalates, you can use it to draw attention.

It could be a lack of respect for personal boundaries. Some people just don't have proper social skills or moral values and act inappropriately.

You should be honest with your mom. Apologize and explain that you know it was inappropriate behavior. Promise her that you won't do it again.

This is an inappropriate and unethical situation. You should firmly and immediately say no. Then, if you feel threatened or harassed, it is important to report the incident to the appropriate authorities, like the police or your workplace supervisor if it happened in a work - related context.

Tell your parents or guardians right away. They are responsible for your safety and well - being and should take action to protect you from any inappropriate behavior.