There was a husband who, during a difficult time for his wife at work, took over all the household chores without being asked. He also left her sweet notes every day to cheer her up. This shows his hotness in terms of being a supportive and loving partner.
Once there was a husband who surprised his wife by cooking a romantic dinner. He had learned all her favorite recipes secretly. He set up the table with candles and flowers, just like in a movie scene. It was a really hot gesture not in a sexual way but in a very loving and caring way.
A husband decided to plan a weekend getaway for his wife and himself. He booked a cozy cabin in the mountains, planned all the activities like hiking and stargazing. His thoughtfulness and the effort he put into making it a special time for them both made him a really 'hot' husband in a non - sexual but very endearing sense.