One way to apply it is through acts of kindness. For example, if you see someone struggling with their bags, offer to help. This simple act of giving your physical assistance communicates your helpful nature. Another way is to give knowledge. If you're good at a subject and help a classmate understand it, you're communicating your willingness to share and your friendliness. In family life, giving love and attention to family members, like spending time with grandparents, is also an application of this concept. It tells them that they are important to you.
We can share food. If you bake some cookies and give them to your neighbors, it's a friendly gesture that communicates warmth and a sense of community. Also, giving our time to listen to someone who is having a bad day is very important. It shows that we care about their feelings and are there for them, which is a great way of communicating without using many words.
In daily life, we can give compliments. Telling someone they look nice or did a great job is a form of giving. It makes them feel good and strengthens your relationship.
One way could be related to competition. Just like lobsters compete for territory, we can compete fairly in our jobs or studies. For example, strive to be the best in a project.
We can apply the 'big rocks story' by first identifying our 'big rocks' like exercise, study time. Then schedule them first in our daily routine.
Giving is the best communication story because it speaks louder than words. It's a universal language. In different cultures, acts of giving are always seen as kind and positive. It can be as simple as giving a smile to a stranger. That small act of giving can make the other person feel acknowledged and welcomed, which is a great form of communication.
In daily life, the concept can be applied by being more open and approachable. Listen to others' stories without judgment. For instance, at work, instead of just focusing on tasks, take time to get to know your colleagues on a personal level. Share a laugh or a coffee break. It can also be applied in the neighborhood. When new neighbors move in, go over and introduce yourself like a friend would, offer help if needed. This helps create a friendly and harmonious community.
We can apply it by being more aware of those around us who may be 'drowning' metaphorically. For example, if a colleague is struggling with a work task, offer help like we would to the drowning man.
It can be applied by using it as a conversation starter. For example, you can share a 'free emotions social story' with your friends or family and then discuss the emotions involved.
In relationships, we can apply it by not being too self - centered. The gingerbread man was only concerned about himself escaping. In a relationship, we need to think about the other person too. If we are too self - assured and don't consider our partner's feelings, it could lead to problems. For example, always assuming our ideas are the best without listening to our partner is like the gingerbread man's overconfidence.
One way to apply it is in your study routine. Consider your major exams or important assignments as the big rocks. Make sure you schedule time for studying for them first. Then, the sand could be things like reading extra materials or chatting with classmates about minor topics. By putting the big rocks first, you're more likely to succeed in your academic goals.
You can apply it by identifying the hardest task each day and doing it first. For example, if you hate exercising but know it's good for you, make it the first thing in the morning.
One way is in relationships. When there are some disagreements, instead of focusing on the problems (half empty), you can think about the good times and the potential for better understanding in the future (half full).