Some books that might be considered'resetting lady novels' could be 'The Girl on the Train'. The main character has to reset her understanding of herself and her life as she uncovers the truth about her past and present. Also, 'The Secret Life of Bees' has elements of the main female characters resetting their lives as they form a new community and find new purpose away from their previous difficult situations.
There are many novels that might fall into this category. One could be 'Ella Minnow Pea' where the main character has to adapt to a changing world which is like a form of reset for her. Another might be 'The Hunger Games' series. Katniss Everdeen constantly has her life upended and has to'reset' her strategies and relationships to survive. It's not a pure'resetting lady novel' but has relevant elements.