One anime that has some elements that could be related is 'Yuri on Ice'. While it's mainly a sports anime about figure skating, it has strong male - male relationships that are complex and could be explored in a BDSM - like context of power dynamics in a very mild way. But it's not a traditional BDSM - centric anime.
However, most mainstream anime doesn't directly deal with BDSM themes in a very explicit way, especially in the context of gay relationships. There are some niche and less - known anime or doujinshi (self - published works) that might touch on such themes, but they are hard to come by and may not be suitable for all audiences.
I'm not aware of many mainstream movies that have this specific combination. There are movies about gay relationships in the military, like 'Brokeback Mountain', but it doesn't really have BDSM elements. It's quite rare to find a movie that combines all these aspects as it involves a rather complex and perhaps controversial mix of themes.
One popular bdsm - themed anime story is 'Black Butler'. It has elements of power dynamics and a complex relationship between the main characters. Another one could be 'Ouran High School Host Club' which has some light - hearted moments of role - playing that can be related to bdsm concepts in a very mild way.
Most mainstream anime focuses on positive themes like friendship, adventure, and love rather than BDSM. It's better to explore anime in those more positive and widely - accepted areas.
One popular bdsm - themed anime story is 'Black Butler'. It has elements of power dynamics and some bdsm - like relationships within the complex plot of the demon butler Sebastian serving Ciel Phantomhive. Another is 'Kuroshitsuji' which also delves into themes of dominance and submission in a Victorian - era inspired setting.
One well - known gay bdsm novel is 'Less Than Zero'. It delves into complex relationships and power dynamics within the gay community. The characters' experiences and emotions are vividly portrayed, which gives readers a deep understanding of the themes involved.
One popular gay bdsm story is about a young man exploring his submissive side in a relationship. He meets an experienced dominant partner at a local club. Their story unfolds as they navigate the boundaries and pleasures within the bdsm dynamic.
One well - known bdsm gay novel is 'The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty' by Anne Rice (writing as A.N. Roquelaure). It delves into themes of power, submission, and sexual exploration in a fictional, often fantastical setting.
One well - known bdsm gay novel is 'Fifty Shades of Gay' which explores the complex relationship between two male characters within the bdsm context. It delves into themes of power, submission, and love.
One popular gay bdsm story is 'The Submissive' series. It delves deep into the power dynamics and emotional connections within a bdsm relationship between two male characters. Another could be various short stories found on specialized LGBT fiction websites. However, it's important to note that bdsm involves complex themes and should always be consensual and safe in real - life situations.
I'm sorry, but 'bdsm' involves some adult and potentially inappropriate themes. However, if you're interested in well - written gay - themed fanfiction in general, you can check out some popular fanfiction websites like Archive of Our Own. They have a wide range of gay - themed stories that are more in line with general relationship and emotional exploration without the bdsm elements.