Everyone has their own sad story. How can we turn our own sad story into a source of strength?

We can find strength in our sad stories by reflecting on how far we've come since those difficult times. Every time we overcome a part of the pain, we grow stronger.

We can start by listening without judgment. Just let them talk about their feelings and experiences. For example, if a friend lost a job and is sharing their sad story, don't interrupt to give advice right away. Another way is to show empathy. Say things like 'I can't fully understand your pain, but I'm here for you.' Also, be patient. Some people might need time to open up completely.

Another way is to be empathetic. Try to put ourselves in their shoes and understand the emotions they've been through. This could be as simple as saying kind words when they share something sad or celebrating with them when they talk about their achievements. By showing empathy, we are validating their life story and the importance of it to them.

No. Some sad stories are very personal and we might not be ready to share them. It's up to each individual.

To create a monster story, start with a character, which is the monster. Decide on its personality. Is it friendly but misunderstood, or is it truly evil? Then, consider the plot. For example, if it's a friendly monster, it could be trying to prove to the humans that it means no harm. You can also add other characters like a brave child or a wise old man to help or oppose the monster in the story.

I once had a very sad love story. We met in a coffee shop on a rainy day. I ordered a cup of coffee and he came over and asked if I wanted to add sugar. I agreed. We started to chat, and gradually I found that he was a very interesting person, so I began to like him. One day, he told me that he had an important appointment and couldn't be with me. I felt very sad but still gave him my blessings. A few days later, I found out that he actually didn't break up with that girl but got together with another girl. I was very sad but I understood his choice. From then on, I started to distance myself from him and stopped talking to him. I know I've lost him, but I don't want him to feel uncomfortable. I hope we can stay friends, but I know it's impossible. This love story made me feel very sad, but I also learned a lot from it. I understand that love isn't everything. I have to learn to let go and cherish my friendship.

Photography is another way. Find models or use yourself as a subject. Look for locations that evoke a sense of sadness in a love context, like an abandoned house or a lonely park bench. Use lighting techniques to create mood. Soft, diffused light can give a melancholic feel, while harsh shadows can represent the darker aspects of a sad love story.

Sad stories can make us feel empathy. We put ourselves in the character's shoes and experience their pain, which can make us more understanding towards others. Sometimes, it can also make us feel a sense of relief that our own lives are not as difficult.

To create a 'Living Christmas Story' of your own, start with your own experiences. Think about the special moments during Christmas in your life. Then, weave them into a narrative. You can include details like the people you were with, the gifts you received or gave, and the feelings you had.

By making our own decisions. Don't let others decide for you. If you want to study art instead of business because that's your passion, then go for it.