My wife likes pregnancy risk with other men stories. How can I talk to her about it?

This is not normal behavior at all. In a committed marriage, the focus should be on the relationship between the husband and wife. Having an interest in such stories involving other men is concerning as it goes against the loyalty and exclusivity that marriage typically represents.

First, you should have an open and honest conversation with her. Express your concerns and how it makes you feel. Maybe there's a misunderstanding.

She can look for them in parenting magazines. Many of these magazines have real - life stories about pregnancy, including those that involve risks.

Suggest watching documentaries or movies that feature black men's stories. There are many great ones out there, like 'Hidden Figures' which showcases the important contributions of black women and men in the space program. You can watch it together and have discussions afterwards.

Maybe she is interested in understanding the potential difficulties and challenges during pregnancy. It could also be that she wants to be well - informed in case she or someone she knows might experience pregnancy in the future.

You could also try to get involved in these interactions. Join in when they are sharing stories and see what it's all about. This way, you can better understand the dynamic and your wife's intentions. If it's all about positive cultural exchange and friendship, there's no need to overreact.

You can start by expressing your discomfort in a calm way. Just say something like, 'Mom, I've noticed you like these gloryhole stories, but they make me feel a bit uncomfortable.' Keep the conversation non - accusatory.

You can approach the conversation gently. Maybe start with a compliment or something positive. Then, gradually bring up the topic. For instance, 'You know, you're always so open - minded. I noticed you watched my gay initiation stories. I wonder if you have any questions or thoughts about it?' Explain your connection to the stories, like if they made you more empathetic towards the gay community. And listen carefully to her side to avoid misunderstandings.

You can start by suggesting books from related genres. For example, if she likes the mystery aspect of adult bookstore stories, introduce her to detective novels. Just pick a popular one like 'Sherlock Holmes' and give it to her as a gift. Maybe she'll like the different style but still enjoy the mystery elements.

A wife was pregnant and had a family history of gestational diabetes. She was at high risk of developing it herself. She had to be extremely careful with her diet, cutting out most sugary foods. She also had to go for more frequent glucose tests. Fortunately, with strict management, she managed to avoid major complications, but it was a constant worry throughout her pregnancy.