How should I deal with an old perv who spends time looking at my boobs?

If an old perv is staring at you, you should immediately remove yourself from the situation if possible. Go to a public place where there are more people, like a store or a busy café.

First of all, trust your instincts. If it makes you feel uneasy, it's a valid feeling. You can start by documenting the incident if you can do it safely. Maybe take a photo of the person from a distance (but be careful not to put yourself in danger). Then, talk to someone in authority. If it's at work, talk to your supervisor. If it's in a public place, like a shopping mall, inform the customer service desk. It's important to take action to protect yourself and make sure this person doesn't continue this inappropriate behavior.

It could be a lack of respect for personal boundaries. Some people just don't have proper social skills or moral values and act inappropriately.

One way is to make it clear that you're aware of their inappropriate behavior. You can give them a stern look or cross your arms in a defensive posture. This might make them think twice. Also, carry something like a personal alarm or a whistle. If they come too close or their behavior escalates, you can use it to draw attention.

Engaging in a task can also be helpful. If you're in a library, start reading a book intently or if you're at a bus stop, focus on looking at the bus schedule. This shows that you're occupied and not interested in their gaze.

When dealing with a drunk wife, communication is key. Talk to her gently and let her know you are there for her. If she is feeling unwell, you might need to be prepared to call for medical help. Also, don't take any mean words she might say while drunk too seriously.

It's a really tough situation. You might feel angry, hurt, or betrayed. But instead of acting impulsively, try to find out if there's a chance to salvage the relationship. If your wife is remorseful, you could set some new boundaries and rules for your marriage and work on rebuilding trust.

Another approach could be to have a deeper conversation about values. Explain to him that the kind of stories he tells don't align with your values or the kind of relationship you want to have. Share with him your own values and how important it is for both of you to uphold certain standards in your communication. You can also suggest activities or topics that are more positive and respectful to focus on together, like discussing books, movies or hobbies.

Well, if my wife cheated in such a situation, I would probably take some time apart. I'd need to clear my head and think about what I really want. Maybe I would talk to some close friends or family members for advice. They might offer different perspectives that could help me make a decision on whether to try to save the marriage or move on.

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