My friend and I used to share interests in girls. There was this one girl we met at a concert. We both thought she was really cool. So, we approached her together. We became a group of friends first. Eventually, my friend started dating her, but I was okay with it because we had a great time all hanging out together, and it was a really positive experience for all of us.
One story could be that a wife shared with her friend about the first time she and her husband went on a camping trip. There were so many mishaps like forgetting the tent poles, but they ended up having a great time under the stars. It was a story full of laughter and the realization of how they could overcome small problems together.
It can be positive. If the shared stories are positive, like funny anecdotes or inspiring tales, it can brighten her day and give her new perspectives. For example, a friend sharing a story of achieving a fitness goal might motivate her.
This kind of topic involves vulgar and unethical behavior, we should focus on positive and healthy relationship stories instead.
In my experience, it can be good. Like when my friend and I shared a mutual friend who was a girl. We all had a common interest in music. We would go to concerts together. My friend and she got along great, and it made our group more fun. There was no jealousy or bad feelings because we were all just friends having a good time.
If by 'getting shared stories' it implies something more personal like shared relationship stories or secrets. First, you should have an open conversation with her. Maybe someone is overstepping boundaries. You need to figure out if it makes her uncomfortable. If so, she can politely ask the sharer to stop or limit the sharing. Also, make sure she feels safe and supported by you.
Not at all. There could be stories about disagreements in the family, like how they disagreed on how to raise their children. These kinds of stories are not positive but are just normal parts of sharing life experiences with a friend.
One possible reason for this going wrong is a lack of clear relationship boundaries. If the girlfriend, boyfriend, and best friend don't clearly define what is acceptable behavior, confusion can occur. For instance, if the best friend starts getting too involved in the couple's affairs. Another factor could be the best friend's own insecurities or loneliness, causing her to overstep. The key is for all parties to respect the main relationship between the girlfriend and the boyfriend.
In most cases, it's normal to share some stories now and then. But if it becomes the only thing he talks about, it might not be so normal. Maybe he doesn't have other things he feels comfortable sharing, or he's just really into his gf at the moment. However, it's important to communicate if it starts to bother you.
There would be a lot of jealousy. Both the best friend and the person sharing the girlfriend might feel envious of each other's time with her. It could also lead to a breakdown of the friendship. If there are any feelings of inequality in the 'sharing' arrangement, it can create resentment.
This situation is completely unethical in most cultural and moral frameworks. It violates the concept of monogamy and the respect and commitment within a marriage relationship. It can cause deep emotional harm to all parties involved.