How should a son respond when his drunk mom tells inappropriate stories?

The son should firmly but politely let his mom know that such topics are inappropriate. For example, he could say 'Mom, these stories make me uncomfortable. Let's not talk about this.'

When a rapist tells his story, society needs to be very cautious. We should not allow his narrative to influence public opinion in a way that lessens the severity of his crime. Instead, we should use it as an opportunity to raise awareness about rape prevention, support for victims, and the need for a more just legal system. For example, we can use it to start conversations about how to better educate men on respecting women's boundaries and the importance of consent.

Society needs to take a zero - tolerance approach. First, the legal system should ensure that the perpetrator is held accountable. Second, there should be more education on family values and privacy to prevent such situations from arising. Community support for the victim, in this case the mother, is also crucial.

Mom should firmly but gently tell the son that such topics are not appropriate for their conversation. She can say something like 'These are private and adult - related topics, not suitable for us to discuss. If you have questions about puberty or relationships in a general and proper way, we can talk about those with dad or a more appropriate person like a teacher.'

The mom should firmly but gently tell the son that such stories are not appropriate for them to discuss. She can say something like 'Those are not the kind of stories we talk about in our family.'

He could first calm down the situation. For example, he can separate his wife and son gently and then talk to his wife privately about why she resorted to spanking.

A good response could be to engage in a positive conversation about it. Maybe ask some gentle questions to understand her fantasies better, like 'What made you think of this fantasy?' But at the same time, he should respect boundaries and not push her too far if she seems uncomfortable. He can also share some of his own non - sexual but intimate thoughts to create a more equal exchange of feelings.

He should first listen attentively and non - judgmentally. Let her know that she can trust him with such personal thoughts. Then, he can share his own feelings about it in a respectful way, whether he's comfortable with the ideas or has some concerns.

Well, it's a really tough situation. He might feel angry, betrayed, and a whole bunch of other emotions. But he should try not to overreact immediately. He could start by having an open and honest conversation with his wife about why she felt the need to share these stories, what led to the cheating, and if she wants to work on the marriage. Maybe they can seek professional help together to sort through their feelings and figure out the future of their relationship.

One way for the son to cope is to talk to a trusted adult, like a teacher or a neighbor. They can offer support and advice. Also, he can try to set boundaries for himself. For example, if his mom is drunk and friends are over, he can choose to stay in his room and not be part of the situation. He should also remember that his mom's behavior is not his fault.