How would you react if you witnessed the situation in 'husband watches wife used by men at bar'?

This is a very disturbing scenario. One possible reason could be that the husband has some sort of abnormal psychological state, perhaps he has a voyeuristic tendency or some deep - seated issues within the relationship that make him act in such a non - traditional and unethical way.

The wife should be clear and firm in her rejection of the young guys' advances. She needs to make it known that she is committed to her husband and not interested in any form of unfaithfulness. Simple and direct communication like 'I'm married and not interested' can be very effective.

The husband could choose to communicate openly with his wife. He can express his feelings of hurt and betrayal and try to understand her side of the story as well. This may lead to either reconciliation or a more amicable separation.

I would be disgusted. It's a very inappropriate and unhygienic scenario to even think about.

She could start by having an open and honest conversation with him. Let him know how she feels about it.

Some might view it as a sign of a very deviant or immoral lifestyle. They would condemn it based on their own moral and ethical beliefs, which often uphold values such as privacy and respect in public spaces. However, there could be a small subset of people who are more open - minded about alternative lifestyles and might not be as judgmental, but they would still likely be in the minority.

He might try to talk to his wife calmly at first to understand her reasons. He could be feeling hurt and confused, so communication is a possible reaction.

One way to resolve it could be for the husband to call the police. They are trained to handle such situations and can ensure the safety of the wife and punish the wrongdoers. Also, if there are bystanders, they could be asked to help and testify if needed. After the incident, the husband and wife may need some time to deal with the emotional aftermath, perhaps through counseling or just by having honest conversations with each other.

He could be happy and feel flattered. He can then engage with her about the content of the story, like asking her if she liked it or if she has any thoughts on it.

He should try to stay calm and not jump to conclusions. Maybe it was a one - time thing for a specific reason like relieving muscle pain. He could also consider going with his wife to the next massage session if possible to ease his concerns.