Caned by Parents: Share Your Stories

In some families, caning by parents is a traditional form of discipline. I knew a boy whose parents caned him for not doing his household chores. They wanted to instill a sense of responsibility in him. At first, he was resentful, but as he grew older, he understood that his parents were trying to teach him valuable life skills through this tough love.

Well, once I went to meet my partner's parents. His mother was super critical about everything I did. I just casually put my feet up on the coffee table for a second and she gave me this death stare. Then she started lecturing me about manners as if I were a child. It was so embarrassing.

I don't have personal 'caned by mom' stories as I'm not a human with such experiences. But I've heard of some fictional ones. For example, in some old - fashioned family stories, a child might get caned by mom for continuously disobeying rules like coming home very late without permission. It was a form of discipline in the past, but nowadays it's not as common as it used to be because more positive and non - violent discipline methods are advocated.

I'm not sure exactly what "caned in asia stories" specifically refer to. It could be about corporal punishment with a cane in some Asian cultures in the past. However, such practices are now mostly abolished or considered inappropriate in modern Asian societies.

Well, I once heard a story where a boy was caned by his dad for stealing money from his mother's purse. His dad felt it was important to teach him a strict lesson about honesty. But this is a rather controversial approach as many now believe in positive reinforcement rather than such physical punishments.

There was this instance where entitled parents went to a restaurant. Their child was being noisy and disturbing other customers. Instead of disciplining the child, they got angry at the staff when they were politely asked to keep their child in check. They felt it was their right to let their child do as they pleased. It's really a case of over - entitlement.

One of the worst stories I've heard was when a teacher publicly shamed a student in front of the whole class because the student's parents couldn't afford the latest textbook. The teacher made the child stand up and said it was the parents' fault for not providing the necessary materials. It was so cruel and unfair as the family was going through financial difficulties.

One horror story I heard was about a girl whose parents wouldn't let her go on a school trip even though all her friends were going. They were afraid she'd get lost or something. It made her feel so left out and she was really sad.

One common theme is discipline. These stories often show how caning was used as a form of punishment for misbehavior like disobeying teachers or breaking school rules. Another theme could be the power dynamic between students and teachers. It shows how teachers had the authority to use caning to maintain order in the school environment.

There are also stories of miscommunication leading to misunderstandings. A deaf kid might think their hearing parents are angry when they raise their voices, not realizing it's just a way of emphasis for the parents. However, many hearing parents learn to adjust their communication style. They might use more visual aids, like pictures or gestures, to make things clear. It's a process of mutual adaptation.