First, don't overthink it too much. If you're interested in getting to know her better, you can leave a comment on one of her stories in a light - hearted way. For example, if she posted a picture of a place she visited and you have been there too, you can say 'That place looks amazing! I went there once and [share a short anecdote].' This can open up a dialogue between you two. Also, if you feel comfortable, you can directly ask her if she has any particular reason for always checking your story. But be careful not to come across as too pushy.
There are several possibilities. One is that she is genuinely interested in you as a person. She might find your life exciting or relatable through your stories. Another reason could be that she is just being friendly and likes to keep up with what's going on in the lives of people she knows. However, if she does it consistently and shows other signs like trying to start conversations with you about the things in your story, there's a good chance she has some level of interest in you, whether it's just friendship or something more.
If you're curious about their motives, you might consider blocking them. But if you're okay with it, you can just leave it be. Another option is to post stories that show you're happy and moved on. This might send a message that you're doing fine without them.
If you're interested in getting to know her better, you can respond in your story in a way that might encourage her to engage more. For instance, if you post a picture of a book you're reading, you could add a caption like 'Loving this book. Any recommendations?' This way, she might feel more comfortable to comment. Another option is to simply like or reply to her stories too, if she has any. This shows that you're also interested in her life.
First, you should make it clear to her right away that this is not acceptable behavior. Then, try to establish clearer boundaries between you two. Maybe also avoid bringing up such inappropriate topics in the future. It's important to keep the family relationship healthy and proper.
You might start a conversation with her about the story. For example, ask her what she liked about it. This can help you get to know her better and also show that you value her opinion.
Just listen carefully and show empathy. A simple nod or a few words of understanding can go a long way.
You could start by sending her a friendly message thanking her for including you. It's a simple and positive way to show that you notice.
You could just leave it be. Maybe she'll come back to it later. Don't overthink it too much as it might not be a big deal.
Tag her in relevant and funny stories. But don't overdo it, or it might seem pushy. Maybe once in a while when it really makes sense.
Another option is to send her a private message, but keep it casual. For instance, you could say something like 'Hey, noticed you checked out my story. How have you been?' This way, you're opening the door for communication without putting too much pressure on her.