When facing difficulties in relationships, like an argument with a friend. Don't let that one incident end the friendship. Remember 'not the end of my story' and try to communicate better, understand each other's perspectives, and repair the relationship. It's about having a positive attitude towards setbacks in different aspects of life.
One way is to always look at failures as learning opportunities. For example, if you cook a meal and it turns out badly, instead of giving up, think 'this is not the end of my cooking story'. You can try new recipes, learn new techniques, and get better at cooking.
One way is in fitness. Just think 'i can run this extra mile, i will' and then do it, end of story. It helps you push your limits.
You can start by trying new hobbies. For example, if you always wanted to paint but were afraid of not being good at it, just start. That's taking a risk, and if you do, you'll have a story about your painting journey.
One can start by being true to their own experiences and not getting influenced too much by what others say or the general stories around. For example, if there is a story that says a certain career is the only successful one, but you have a passion for something else, follow your passion.
In social activities, like planning a small party. You have 48 hours to send out invitations, buy the necessary items, and set up. Once the 48 hours pass, the party happens as is. This way, it forces you to be efficient and not keep dragging the preparation process. It also gives a sense of urgency and helps in making quick decisions. For example, if you can't find a particular decoration item within the 48 hours, you just go without it. This concept can really help in streamlining various aspects of daily life.
One can start by taking small risks. For example, speaking up in a meeting when you usually don't. This shows guts. If it leads to a positive outcome like getting a new project, that's success and it becomes a story.
One way is to always look for new opportunities. When you face a failure, instead of giving up, search for other ways to achieve your goals. For instance, if you're an entrepreneur and your business fails, you can learn from your mistakes and start a new business.
To apply it in daily life, first, identify your capabilities. If you can fix a broken chair, don't procrastinate. Just start fixing it. Because you can, you will get the chair fixed. This also applies to more complex things like if you can study for an exam, don't waste time thinking about it too much. Just start studying and you will do well. It's about being decisive based on your own skills and abilities.
To apply 'i can and i will end of story' in daily life, first, you need to be aware of your own capabilities. Let's say you want to start a new exercise routine. Instead of making excuses about being too busy or tired, remind yourself that you can do it. Then, with the 'i will' part, you have to be resolute. Every time you think about skipping a day, recall this statement. It helps you build discipline. Moreover, in dealing with relationships, if you want to mend a broken friendship, believing you can and will take the necessary steps can make all the difference. It gives you the motivation to reach out, apologize if needed, and work towards rebuilding the bond.
In daily life, you can apply this concept by facing your problems head - on. Every challenge is a part of your story. If you run away from them, you're walking out on your own story. Instead, you should embrace difficulties and learn from them to make your story more meaningful.
By not giving up easily. For instance, if you face rejection in a relationship, remember it's not the end of your story. You can work on yourself, become a better person, and find someone more suitable in the future.