Well, initially, don't overreact. Try to have a calm conversation with her. You can start by saying 'Mom, I noticed you were looking at my spanking stories. I feel a bit uneasy about it because these are very personal to me.' Explain to her how important privacy is to you. You might also ask her why she was interested in those stories. Based on her response, you can then decide how to handle the situation further. Maybe she didn't realize it was making you uncomfortable, or she had a valid reason that you can work around together to find a better solution that respects your privacy and her concerns.
If it makes you uncomfortable, you should talk to her. Just say something like 'Mom, these are my personal stories and I don't feel okay with you reading them.'
It depends on how you feel about your ex. If you have completely moved on and are indifferent, then there's no need to do anything special. But if seeing their name among the viewers makes you feel a bit of something - whether it's annoyance or a twinge of old feelings - then you need to assess what you want. If you want to cut all ties, be firm and block them from seeing your stories. If you're not sure, maybe limit what you post for a while until you figure out your emotions.
You can simply ignore it. Acting like you don't notice can show that you've moved on and it doesn't bother you.
If you're comfortable, you might send a polite but firm message asking them to stop if it makes you feel uneasy. However, if you think there could be a chance of friendship in the future, you could reach out and have an open conversation about why they are so interested in your stories. It all depends on how you feel about your ex and what kind of relationship you want to have (or not have) with them in the future.
You should have an open and honest conversation with her. Let her know how it makes you feel, whether it's uncomfortable or makes you question the relationship. Avoid getting angry immediately but communicate your concerns calmly.
You could try to reach out and ask him directly in a friendly way. For example, say something like 'I noticed you haven't been watching my stories lately. Is everything okay?'.
Don't overreact right away. You could start by casually asking him how he's been. Maybe he'll mention something about not seeing your stories.
If you're uncomfortable, you can make your stories private so they can't view them anymore. Another option is to block them if you really don't want them having access to your content. But if you don't mind, you can just continue posting as usual.
Well, it might make her uncomfortable. Spanking is a rather sensitive topic and she might not want to hear about it. Also, she could get worried or think that there's something inappropriate going on.
If it really bothers you, you could try reaching out in a non - aggressive way, like sending a simple text asking how they are. But be prepared for any kind of response or no response at all. For example, 'Hey, I noticed you stopped watching my stories. Just wanted to check if you're okay.' However, this might reopen old wounds or create more confusion.
You could reach out to him casually. Just send a simple message asking how he is. Don't directly mention the stories at first.