My wife likes adult bookstore stories. How can I encourage her to explore other types of literature?

You can start by suggesting books from related genres. For example, if she likes the mystery aspect of adult bookstore stories, introduce her to detective novels. Just pick a popular one like 'Sherlock Holmes' and give it to her as a gift. Maybe she'll like the different style but still enjoy the mystery elements.

In the grand scheme of reading interests, some people might find it strange while others might see it as just another form of literary exploration. If your wife's interest in these stories doesn't interfere with her daily life, relationships, or values, it could be considered normal. However, it's always good to have an open conversation about it to understand her perspective better.

You could start by having an open conversation with her about why she likes these stories. Maybe find out if it's the mystery or the unique settings in the stories. Then, you can encourage her to write her own stories inspired by the ones she likes. For example, she could start a blog to share her creative writing with others who might have similar interests.

Another way is to make the new stories more interactive. Maybe act out parts of the new story together. If it's a story about a little explorer, you can pretend to be on an adventure with the child as you read the story. This can draw their attention away from just the diaper use stories. Also, let the child choose the new story from a selection you present. Giving them some control can make them more interested in exploring different stories.

Just sit down with her and show genuine interest. Say something like 'Honey, I'd love to hear about your vacations. I bet you have some great stories.'

Tell her that there are no limits to her imagination when making stories. Encourage her to combine different things she has seen or experienced, like the animals in the zoo and the characters in fairy tales. And praise her efforts and the unique parts of her stories every time.

Create a comfortable environment at home. Maybe have a cozy night in with some wine and soft music, and then gently bring up the topic. Let her know that you are genuinely interested in her past.

Create a safe and non - judgmental environment at home. Let her know that whatever she has to say, you are there to listen without criticism.

You could start by having an honest conversation with her about your concerns for her health. Maybe show her some statistics about the harms of smoking.

You can start by expressing your feelings in a calm and non - accusatory way. For example, say 'Honey, I've noticed you like these stories and it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable. Can we talk about why?'