The partner may initially withdraw and become distant. She might feel like she doesn't know her partner as well as she thought. There could be a lot of self - doubt on her part too, wondering if she did something wrong in the relationship. Depending on how strong their bond is, she could either try to work through it with her partner or decide that the relationship is no longer salvageable.
The partner would likely be very hurt and feel betrayed. Since they are in a lesbian relationship, the act of sleeping with a man goes against the very nature of their relationship.
One possible reason could be confusion about her own sexual orientation. Maybe she has been suppressing some heterosexual feelings and in a moment of weakness or self - exploration, she ends up sleeping with her guy friend. Another reason might be extreme peer pressure or a desire to fit into a more 'heteronormative' society. She could be trying to prove to others or to herself that she can have a 'normal' relationship with a man.
He might get angry right away. Some men are very protective of their wives and seeing her dance with a stranger could trigger that protective and possessive instinct.
Parents should first be calm. Reacting with anger or shock won't help. They need to realize that their daughter's friend being a lesbian is just a part of who she is.
The guy would probably be horrified and ashamed when he realizes he's being watched.
She might be shocked at first. After all, it's her best friend. She probably never expected such behavior.
Society should condemn such behavior. People around should step in and support the victim. For instance, if it happens in a public place, bystanders should not be silent but call out the inappropriate behavior.
As a partner, you should respect your own feelings and hers. If you're okay with it, that's fine. But if not, be assertive yet kind. You could say 'I love that you want to be open, but this particular story is too private for me. I hope we can keep some things just for us.' Also, consider the impact on your relationship's intimacy and privacy in the long run.
She should first try to stay calm. Reacting with anger or shock won't help. Then, she could start an open and honest conversation with her daughter. Let her daughter know that she is loved and accepted no matter what her sexual orientation is.
No, it is not appropriate. Such behavior violates the boundaries of respect and consent in a relationship. A healthy relationship is based on mutual understanding and respect for each other's feelings and boundaries. If someone has sexual needs, they should communicate openly with their partner rather than engaging in such inappropriate behavior while the partner is asleep.
She may start by trying to figure out who the kidnapper is and what his motives are. If she has any special abilities or skills, she would be thinking about how to use them to her advantage. For example, if she has telepathic powers, she could try to send a distress signal to her friends or family. Also, she might try to gain the kidnapper's trust in order to find a moment to escape.