Rushing into marriage is often seen in online dating marriages. People get carried away by the virtual relationship and think they are ready for marriage without really getting to know each other well. They might not have met each other's families, or understood each other's long - term goals. This haste often results in a marriage that falls apart quickly as the real issues start to surface once they are married.
Lack of real - life chemistry is also a big problem. Sometimes people seem great online but when they meet in person and get married, there's no real spark. They might realize they don't actually like each other's physical presence or habits. This can lead to a very unhappy and short - lived marriage. Just think, if two people can't stand to be in the same room for long, how can the marriage survive? It's a recipe for disaster.
I know a couple who met on an online dating platform. They were from different cultural backgrounds. At first, they thought it was exciting. But when they got married, the cultural differences became huge problems. For example, their ideas about family values and holidays were so different. There were misunderstandings all the time, and their marriage didn't last long.
For me, it's when you meet someone who has completely misrepresented themselves. Like they say they're single but actually they're in a relationship. It's a huge waste of time and can be really hurtful.
Well, once I met a guy on a dating app. His profile picture was really nice, so I agreed to meet him. But when we met in person, he looked nothing like his picture. He was also super rude and kept talking about himself the whole time. He didn't even ask me a single question about myself. It was a total disaster.
There was this guy who thought he had found the perfect match online. They had been talking for weeks. But on the date, the girl brought along her ex - boyfriend! She said she just wanted to make sure the new guy was better. It was so awkward and the poor guy felt like he had been used. This kind of situation is really among the worst in online dating.
There were a few novels about the process from online dating to marriage that could be recommended. The first was "Not All Online Romances Are Miserable." This was a modern romance/urban life novel by Kong Ha. In addition,"After I Married My Online Partner" was a modern romance web novel written by Qianli Yixuan. There was also "30 Days After Online Romance, I Propose 5T5" by Ye Yuxi. In addition,"Online Romance Flirting Your Fiancé" was a pure love novel, and the author was not familiar with Chaochao. Finally,"Online Marriage" was also a modern romance novel by Mei, an old dream. These novels all covered the process from online dating to marriage, and readers could choose to read them according to their preferences.
One horror story is when someone met a date who looked nothing like their profile picture. It was really awkward and a total waste of time.
One common element is misrepresentation. Like people using old or heavily edited photos that don't look like them in real life. Another is dishonesty, such as hiding important facts like being married or having a criminal record.
One of the worst online dating stories I heard was when a girl showed up to a date and the guy she met was nothing like his pictures. He was at least 20 years older and about 50 pounds heavier. It was really a shock for her.
For me, it would be finding out that the person you're on a date with is completely different from what they presented themselves as online. Maybe they used old pictures or lied about their job or interests. It just makes you feel deceived.
Sure. There was a couple who arranged a date online. One thought they were meeting at a coffee shop at 3 pm and the other thought it was 5 pm. When the person who arrived at 3 pm didn't see the other, they left after waiting for an hour. And the one arriving at 5 pm was so confused when they found no one there. All because of miscommunication in the online dating chat.