One should firmly and politely ask the friend to stop. Such stories are inappropriate and not suitable for sharing in a general social context. For example, you could say 'These stories are not appropriate for this setting, please refrain from sharing such things.'
If it's a recurring issue, it might be necessary to have a more serious conversation with the friend. Explain that this kind of talk makes people uncomfortable and violates basic social norms. You could also mention that it might affect the relationship between him and your family. For instance, 'Your constant sharing of these inappropriate stories is making everyone uncomfortable and it's not respectful of our family environment. We would like you to stop.'
If a daughter shares an inappropriate story with the family, it's important to stay calm. First, gently interrupt her and let her know that the story is not suitable for family discussion. Then, depending on her age, have an age - appropriate conversation about appropriate topics for family sharing.
You can start by showing interest. For example, say something like 'That sounds really interesting. Tell me more.'
React by distancing yourself immediately. Do not engage in any behavior that could be misconstrued. Let her know that you expect respectful and appropriate family - like interactions. It's important to be clear and not leave any room for misunderstanding.
He could start by having an honest conversation with her. Let her know how her sharing makes him feel. For example, he can say 'I feel uncomfortable when you share those stories' in a calm and non - accusatory way.
First, she should communicate her feelings clearly to him. Let him know how hurt and violated she feels. Then, she might consider setting strict boundaries about what can be shared in the future. If it continues, she could also seek counseling, either alone or as a couple, to address the issue. For instance, she could say 'You are not allowed to share my personal stories anymore. It makes me feel exposed and disrespected.'
You should firmly tell the person that this is inappropriate and you don't want to hear it.
First, make it clear that you find the topic inappropriate. You could say 'This kind of story is not suitable for this environment.' Then, redirect the conversation to a more positive and appropriate topic, like a recent travel experience or a new hobby. By doing this, you are setting boundaries and also keeping the conversation in a more pleasant direction.
If a coworker does this, it's important to firmly and immediately tell them that such behavior is unacceptable. For example, you could say 'Your stories are inappropriate and I don't want to hear them.'
Just listen attentively and show your genuine interest. Say something like, 'That sounds really interesting' or 'I'm here to listen.'
The son should first remove himself from the situation if possible. He doesn't need to sit there and listen to something that makes him uncomfortable.