Family separation is also common. Loved ones are usually not allowed to be with the patient all the time in the ICU. They might only get short visiting times. This leads to a lot of anxiety and longing on both sides. The patient may feel lonely and the family feels powerless. Take a patient with a contagious disease in the ICU, their family can't be near them as much as they would like.
The element of lost hope. As the days pass in the ICU and the patient's condition doesn't improve or gets worse, hope fades. Nurses and doctors may have to deliver bad news. It's like a slow - motion tragedy. For instance, when a patient is in a coma in the ICU for a long time with no signs of waking up, it becomes increasingly difficult to maintain hope.
One common element is the sense of helplessness. The patients are often very ill and the medical team may be doing all they can but still can't save them. For example, in cases of severe trauma patients in the ICU, the doctors might struggle to stop internal bleeding or reverse organ failure.
One sad ICU story is about a young mother. She was in a car accident and ended up in the ICU. Her little children were waiting outside, not fully understanding what was going on. Despite the doctors' best efforts, she passed away, leaving her family in deep grief.
Strange noises are also very common. Nurses might hear whispering, moaning or even the sound of a patient's breathing machine when there is no machine on. It gives a really eerie feeling. In some stories, the noises seem to be a way for the spirits to communicate or just to make their presence known. Another element could be cold spots. In the ICU, which is usually warm due to all the equipment, a sudden cold spot can be quite alarming. And it is often associated with the presence of a ghost in these stories.
Loneliness is a common element. Incels often feel left out in social and dating situations, like they are on the outside looking in. Another is low self - esteem. They usually don't believe they are worthy of love or attention from the opposite sex.
A common element is the extreme shift in mood. For example, from feeling on top of the world in the manic phase to the depths of despair in the depressive phase. Another is the disruption of relationships. People may push away loved ones during manic episodes and then feel lonely during depression.
Another element is the downward spiral. Usually, the addiction gets worse over time. Take a drug addict. They might start with small amounts but end up using more and more, which leads to more problems like health issues and legal troubles.
Time can be an important element. In some sad stories, time runs out. For example, an elderly person who has been waiting for their children to visit for years, but they never come, and then the person passes away. Another aspect is the inability to communicate effectively. A couple might be drifting apart because they don't know how to talk about their problems, which eventually leads to a sad break - up.
One common element is medical emergencies. Things like pre - eclampsia can turn a normal birth into a sad one if not treated promptly.
One element is the financial instability. In manic states, people might overspend, like buying things they don't need or investing recklessly. Then in the depressive state, they worry about the debt they've created. Another common part is the misunderstanding from society. People may not understand bipolar disorder and judge the person's erratic behavior, which adds to the sadness in these stories. There's also the internal struggle within the person, constantly fighting between the extreme emotions.
Another element is the loss of relationships. Many gamblers lose their families, friends, and loved ones because of their addiction. For example, their family members may get tired of their lies about money and their irresponsible behavior. Also, financial ruin is a big part. They lose all their savings, may go into debt, and end up in a very difficult financial situation like losing their homes or being unable to pay for basic necessities.
Loneliness is a common element. Like the story of the elderly person alone on Christmas. Another is disappointment, such as the family who couldn't afford presents. Also, separation, like the soldier far from home.