My husband made me sleep with his friends. How can I get out of this relationship?

This is an extremely unacceptable situation. You should immediately leave the situation and seek help. You can go to a trusted friend or family member's place for safety. Then, consider contacting a local women's shelter or a counselor who can provide you with emotional support and guide you on the legal steps if there are any violations involved.

First, prioritize your relationship. Let your friends know that your partner is important to you. For example, if you have a regular friends' gathering on a date night, you may skip it sometimes. Second, don't let your friends bad - mouth your partner. If they do, defend your partner. Third, involve your partner in some friendly activities so that they can get along with your friends.

First, communication is key. The husband should have an honest conversation with his wife about how he feels and what he has noticed. If the wife realizes the problem, she needs to cut off inappropriate relationships. Then, they can seek professional help like marriage counseling to work on rebuilding trust and rekindling their relationship.

Well, you could create situations where he realizes your importance and feels the need to be by your side. Maybe have a crisis that only you two can solve together.

Well, one way might be to find common interests or hobbies that you both can enjoy together. That can bring you closer and make him more inclined to be on your side. Another approach could be to show appreciation and support for him, and in return, he might be more likely to do the same for you.

You might consider joining writing workshops or groups. Sharing your story there can get valuable feedback and word-of-mouth promotion. Also, entering writing competitions can help get your story noticed by industry professionals.

One way is to keep in regular contact. For example, they can have a weekly phone call or meet up for coffee once a month.

You could start by finding novels that match his interests and recommending them. Maybe offer to read together and have discussions about the story.

For the relationship to recover, the husband has to take full responsibility for his actions. He should not only apologize but also show through his actions that he will change. The couple may consider going to relationship counseling together. There, they can explore deeper issues that might have led to this situation, such as the husband's lack of respect for boundaries. The wife also needs to be able to forgive over time if she decides to save the relationship, but it's a long process that requires mutual effort.

If your daddy's friends are accessible, you could approach them politely and ask if they remember the stories your daddy told about you. But make sure to do it in an appropriate and respectful way. For example, you could say, 'I heard my dad told some stories about me to you. I'm really curious about them. Could you share a bit?'