In daily life, we need to figure out what our 'big rocks' are. They could be spending quality time with family, working on a crucial project at work, or taking care of our physical and mental health. Once we know these, we should allocate specific time for them. For instance, set aside an hour in the morning for exercise (a big rock). Don't let the small things, like checking unimportant notifications on your phone, get in the way. By doing this, we ensure that the most important aspects of our lives are taken care of and then we can deal with the less significant tasks, which is just like how in the story, the big rocks go in the jar first and then the smaller elements can be added around them.
First, identify the big rocks in your day, like important meetings or exercise for health. Then, schedule them as the first things to do. After that, you can fit in the smaller tasks like answering emails or making small purchases. It's all about putting the main priorities first just as the story suggests.
We can apply it by first identifying our 'big rocks'. For example, if studying for an important exam is a big rock, we should schedule time for it before filling our day with small tasks like checking social media. So, make a list of priorities and do them first.
In daily life, to apply the concept from the 'big rocks small rocks story', first, we need to analyze what are the big rocks for us. For example, if health is a big rock, we should schedule regular exercise and proper diet as top priorities. Then, for the small rocks, like watching TV or chatting with friends casually, we can fit them in around the big rocks. Another example could be in work. If a major project is a big rock, we should allocate dedicated time for it without getting distracted by minor office tasks (small rocks). This way, we can manage our time and resources more effectively.
To apply it, first identify your big rocks, like important work tasks or family time. Then schedule them first. For example, if exercise is a big rock for you, set aside a specific time each day for it.
One way is in time management. For example, if your big rock is studying for an exam, you should schedule that first. Then fit in smaller tasks like checking emails or doing light chores around it.
One way is to be more aware of the choices we make. In a game, our choices determine the outcome. Similarly, in life, the choices we make contribute to our life story. So, make choices that will add positive chapters to your story. Also, don't be afraid of 'losing' in small things because in a game, we often learn from our losses and come back stronger. For instance, if you don't get a promotion you wanted, see it as a chance to improve and aim for a better outcome next time, just like you would in a game if you failed a level.
One way to apply 'time being novel' in daily life is to try new things regularly. For example, take a different route to work. This makes the time of your commute novel as you see new sights and perhaps meet new people.
One way is to be more empathetic. When we show understanding and compassion to others, we are more likely to receive the same. For instance, if a friend is going through a tough time and we offer support, later when we need help, they might be there for us. Also, in our work, if we are honest and put in effort, it can come back as recognition or opportunities. This concept encourages us to be aware of how our actions today can create an 'echo' of positive or negative experiences in the future.
We can look for signs of God's presence in the events that happen to us each day, seeing our own lives as a story where God is involved.
We can apply the idea of adaptation. Just like how animals adapt to changes in their environment, we can adapt to new situations in our lives. For example, if we move to a new city, we can learn the local customs and ways of living, like how a migratory bird adjusts to a new habitat.
In daily life, we should always tell the truth when dealing with others. For example, when giving feedback or sharing experiences, not making things up. Also, when we make a promise, we should keep it, because truth in our actions is as important as truth in our words.