How should one react when people tell you stories from war?

One should firmly but politely let the friend know that this is an inappropriate topic. For example, you can say 'I don't think this is something we should be talking about. It's very private.'

Well, it depends on your relationship dynamic. If you're both comfortable with that kind of talk in a private setting, you can laugh it off and engage in a light - hearted conversation. But if it crosses your boundaries, it's important to have a serious conversation. You might say something like 'Honey, I'm not into this kind of talk. I'd rather we focus on other things.'

Just listen attentively. Nod and show that you're interested in what she's saying.

First of all, if it happens in public, people can directly tell the comedian that this is not acceptable behavior. Secondly, they can support the old ladies by listening to their stories more attentively and showing respect for them. Moreover, they can also spread the idea of respecting the elderly and their stories through social media to raise public awareness. For example, if in a comedy club, someone can stand up and say 'This is wrong. These stories are precious and should not be made fun of'.

You could also share your own related experiences or thoughts in response. This creates a more engaging conversation. For instance, if she tells a story about a difficult situation at work, you can share a similar situation you faced and how you dealt with it. This not only shows that you are listening but also deepens the connection between you two.

You can also firmly but politely tell him that you're not interested. For example, say something like 'I'm sorry, but I'm in a hurry and can't stop to listen.' This makes it clear that you don't want to engage further without being rude.

One should listen attentively at first. Because there might be some important messages hidden in those stories.

Calmly. Don't overreact immediately. Try to start a conversation with him to understand why he was looking at such stories.

Share your own memories related to those old stories if you have any. It can be a great way to bond with your sister. If the old stories are a bit negative or uncomfortable, try to gently change the topic to something more positive that is still related to the past, like a happy family event that happened around the same time.

It depends on the type and tone of the story. If it's a sad one, maybe show empathy. For a funny one, laugh and enjoy.