Well, you could first comfort them and then think of some interesting stories or practical advice based on your knowledge and their needs.
You could start with a classic fairy tale or a funny anecdote from your own life.
If you feel uncomfortable, it's okay to gently end the conversation. You could say something like 'I'm really sorry, but I have to go now. It was nice talking to you'. However, if you're okay with it, keep listening and try to make the experience positive for both of you. For example, you can share a relevant but brief experience of your own to show that you can relate to them on some level.
Just listen. Give them your full attention and don't interrupt.
Still be polite and listen quietly.
You could simply say thank you. It's a beautiful compliment.
This statement is inappropriate and involves vulgar and inappropriate content. In any healthy and respectful communication or relationship, such statements should not be made.
You can tell her a fairy tale like 'Cinderella'. It's a classic story. Once upon a time, there was a kind - hearted girl named Cinderella. Her stepmother and stepsisters were very mean to her. But with the help of her fairy godmother, she was able to go to the prince's ball. She lost her glass slipper at the ball and the prince searched everywhere for the girl who could fit the slipper. In the end, they got married and lived happily ever after.
Tell them clearly that this kind of story is unacceptable and disrespectful to your family. If they continue, you may need to distance yourself from them as they lack basic respect for boundaries. Also, you might consider reporting their inappropriate behavior if it persists and makes you feel harassed.
It could mean that by sharing one's personal experiences (telling one's story), they are also contributing to the broader understanding of the past or how things have come to be in a historical context. For example, if a person tells the story of their family's immigration, it's not just a personal account but also a part of the larger history of immigration in a country.
You should have a serious talk with him. Let him know how his behavior makes you feel and that respect is important in a relationship.