In a romance novel where the wife keeps a lover, what drives her to do so?

The woman might be fed up because of a lack of communication and emotional connection with her partner. Or perhaps she's grown weary of the materialistic and superficial aspects of urban life that are affecting her relationship. Another possibility is that she's realized her own personal growth and her partner hasn't kept up.

He could try to stay calm at first. Maybe ask his wife for all the details she's willing to share. Then, he should think about his own values. If he values loyalty highly, it might be hard to continue the relationship. But if he loves her deeply and believes in second chances, they could work on rebuilding trust.

You could set aside some time for her to read without distractions. Maybe create a cozy reading nook for her at home. Also, engage in conversations about the books she reads. Listen to her thoughts and feelings about the stories and characters. This will make her feel that you value her hobby.

It's completely normal. Romance novels can be a form of relaxation for her. They allow her to explore different emotions and relationships in a fictional setting. It's like her own little world of fantasy and love. If she enjoys it, there's no harm in it.

There could be a situation where the hubby is driving to a surprise destination for the wife. She is in the backseat, clueless about where they are going. As they drive, the hubby is dropping hints and the wife is trying to guess, creating an exciting and fun atmosphere in the car.

If a husband faces such a situation, he should first have an open and honest conversation with his wife. Try to understand her feelings and why she is talking about someone else in that way. Maybe there are some misunderstandings or unmet needs in their relationship.

He might be extremely angry and immediately ask his wife for an explanation.

It's not a common trope in literature overall. But in some works that explore the darker side of human relationships, it can be found. In these stories, the hubby's surprise can be a catalyst for various things. It might lead to him seeking revenge, or it could cause him to question his own worth and what he did wrong in the relationship. It also often delves into the wife's motives for having a lover, which can be due to dissatisfaction in the marriage, a search for excitement, or other complex reasons.

This is a tricky one. On one hand, if these stories are shared in a context of complete openness and trust with the current husband, and it's more about understanding a person's past journey, it might not be entirely unethical. But if it's done in a way that shows longing or regret for the first lover, then it crosses the line as it can harm the current marriage.

In " Eroding Feelings: Young Master Gu's Deep Ways of Courting His Wife," the main character, Shen Mengran, believed that as long as she persisted in her efforts without any returns, she would eventually move the male protagonist, Gu Haoran. However, the reality was that she was slapped in the face and was completely injured. In the end, she was imprisoned by Gu Haoran. This man was so heartless that he refused to even give her freedom. This was a modern romance novel about urban life, and the plot was roughly like this.