To prevent overusing 'you', think about using third-person perspectives or even first-person from a character's viewpoint. This shifts the focus away from directly addressing the reader as 'you' throughout the story.
One way is to focus on third-person perspectives. Describe actions and events without directly addressing the reader as 'you'.
To avoid writing trash short stories, one should focus on creating unique characters. Don't rely on stereotypes. Also, plan the plot carefully instead of just making it up as you go. And don't forget to revise and edit for grammar and style.
Read a lot of good short stories to get a sense of what works and what doesn't. Pay attention to the plot, characters, and language used.
Make sure your plot has a clear beginning, middle, and end. Also, define your characters' motivations and goals clearly.
To avoid writing miserable stories, think about adding some humor or light-hearted moments. Also, give your characters supportive relationships and a sense of purpose. Avoid constant setbacks and doom.
Avoid overcomplicating the plot. Keep it simple and focused to hold the reader's attention.
When writing short stories, in order to avoid the 'black list for short stories', one should be very careful about the themes they choose. Avoid themes that are too dark and depressing without any hope or positive elements. Also, pay attention to the cultural and historical references. Make sure they are accurate. In terms of style, keep the writing concise and engaging. Don't use overly flowery language that can make the story seem pretentious. And always keep in mind the target audience and what they would find acceptable and interesting.
Just focus on what you really want to write about and don't let the conventions of that genre influence you. Be true to your own ideas and story.
One should have a strong moral compass. If you are aware that certain topics are not suitable for public consumption, then don't go near them. Moreover, when in doubt, consult with others who uphold good moral values to ensure your writing is clean and appropriate.
One way is to focus on emotions other than sexual ones. For example, write about friendship, family bonds, or the joy of achieving a personal goal.