Should I control my girlfriend to read novels?

My girlfriend likes to read novels. I'm angry. What should I do? How to communicate? First of all, he needed to understand why his girlfriend read novels. Was it because of his hobbies or because he was influenced by the plot and characters in online novels? If it was because of her hobbies, then it was understandable. After all, reading was a beneficial form of entertainment. If you're influenced by the plot and characters in the online novel, you can communicate with her honestly and let her understand your views on the values and morals in the novel, and discuss with her how to better avoid this influence. In addition, you can also try to understand her preferences and needs when communicating with her. Sharing your favorite books or movies with her can not only enhance your relationship but also explore new interests and hobbies together. At the same time, he could also recommend some useful novels or books to her so that she could learn more valuable information. Finally, when communicating, you must remain calm and rational as much as possible to avoid emotional words and actions. Understanding and respecting each other is an important cornerstone for building a healthy relationship. Through communication and joint exploration, we can better understand each other's needs and preferences and thus build a more stable relationship.

As a fan of online literature, I can give you some advice on how to help your girlfriend manage her reading time at night. Here are some tips that might be useful: 1. Communicate with her: Talk to your girlfriend about your concerns and needs honestly. Tell her that you want her to manage her time better and express that you understand her need to read novels. Set rules: Set some rules to help your girlfriend manage her reading time at night. For example, she had to sleep at a certain time or limit the time she could read novels at night. 3. Support: Help your girlfriend manage her reading time at night by providing some support. For example, giving her some time management tools or advice or helping her make a reading plan. Distraction: If your girlfriend has been reading novels at night and doesn't want to sleep, you can try to distract her. For example, he could do some interesting activities with her or go for a walk or watch a movie with her. 5. Get professional help: If your girlfriend can't manage her reading time at night, you may need professional help. You can suggest that she consult a psychologist or sleep specialist for more help and support.

Communication was a complicated process that required constant practice and experience. If you want to learn how to get along with your girlfriend, it's not recommended to read books directly because many books are based on theory and lack practical application. On the contrary, I suggest you accumulate experience through practice. You can try to communicate with your girlfriend to understand her interests, hobbies, and values. Try to do something with her to increase your understanding of each other. In addition, you can also try to participate in some social activities to make more friends and expand your social circle to better understand your girlfriend's interpersonal relationships. I suggest that you accumulate experience through practice and combine your personal characteristics with your girlfriend's personality to sum up a set of communication methods that suit you.

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Well, it's a really difficult situation. You should think about what you value more in a relationship. If loyalty is very important to you, then it might be hard to continue with your girlfriend. Regarding your friend, this is a serious betrayal. You can confront him and ask for an explanation. But keep in mind, whatever you decide, it should be for your own well - being. You don't want to be in a relationship or friendship that makes you constantly feel bad.

Just let her be. Reading fanfiction is a normal hobby. Maybe you can also encourage her to join some fanfiction communities where she can discuss with other fans. It can be a great way for her to make new friends who share the same interests.

If you find out your girlfriend is getting too close or involved with your friends in an inappropriate way, first, you need to have an honest conversation with her. Ask her about her intentions and how she feels about those relationships. Don't be accusatory at first, just try to understand. Then, also talk to your friends. Let them know that you're not comfortable with the situation. If it continues and it's clearly unethical behavior, you might have to consider ending the relationship for your own well - being.

I think a story about a special adventure you had, like a solo trip or a unique experience with friends, could be interesting for her. It shows a side of you she might not know yet and gives you something to talk about and bond over.

Maybe a funny story from your childhood that shows your sense of humor and lighthearted side. Like the time you got into a crazy adventure with your friends and ended up in a hilarious situation.

You could tell her a romantic story about how you two met and fell in love. That'll make her feel special.