A 12-star male referred to a star with 12 planets, not an ordinary male. In the novel, if the 12-star male was related to the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, then the problem would be more complicated. Generally speaking, there were certain contradictions and friction in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so it was not easy for a 12-star male to control the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. But here are some suggestions that might be useful: 1 Respect each other:12 stars male should respect women and respect their opinions and ideas. Respect was the foundation of a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Communication:12-star males should actively communicate with women to understand their thoughts and feelings. If there is any misunderstanding or dissatisfaction, solve the problem in time. 3. Honesty:12-star males should communicate with women honestly and not hide their feelings or thoughts. This would help build trust and understanding. 4. Clear boundaries:12-star men should be clear about their relationship with women and their roles and responsibilities. Don't interfere too much with women's lives and decisions. Understanding:12-star males should understand women's feelings and needs and respect their choices and decisions. Don't force or control women. 6. Patience: A 12-star male should tolerate women's nagging, complaints, or dissatisfaction. Don't quarrel over trivial matters. Patience was very important in a mother-in-law relationship. If a 12-star male wanted to control the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he needed to respect women, actively communicate, communicate frankly, draw boundaries, understand women, and be patient. This would help to establish a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so that both parties could feel comfortable and happy.