Chen Yu in " Only Thirty " was a somewhat reserved man. He loved you but he didn't know how to express it, which made you feel a little troubled. In real life, some people might accept such a man because they might pay more attention to practical actions and expressions rather than just words. Some people might think that if a boy really loved a girl, he would definitely show it instead of expressing it through silence. However, in reality, some boys may be more reserved because they are afraid that expressing their feelings may make the other party feel pressured or uncomfortable. The factors that you need to consider when accepting a man like this include whether he respects your wishes and feelings, whether he will provide help and support when you need it, and whether it will have a positive impact on your life and happiness. Of course, some people might not accept such a boy because they hoped that the other party could express their feelings more directly and clearly. Therefore, everyone should decide whether to accept such a person according to their own situation and needs.