Brother complex was an unhealthy mentality that could affect an individual's physical and mental health. The desire to have an older brother or brother is a very normal emotion, but excessive brother control can lead to anxiety, depression, and other problems. As people grew older, they might gradually get rid of the brotherly complex, but this process was not necessarily complete. Some individuals may need more time or seek professional help to overcome this situation. Overcoming the brotherly complex required the individual to reflect on himself, recognize the harm of the brotherly complex, and try to change his own thoughts and behavior. At the same time, individuals also need to seek support and understanding, communicate with family, friends, and psychiatrist to obtain help and support. Wanting to have an older brother was a very normal emotion, but one had to control their brother-control plot appropriately and not let it affect their physical and mental health.