This is a classic web novel plot problem. Here are some possible reasons: 1. Misjudgment: Sometimes we make wrong judgments about others because we have a wrong impression of their appearance, personality, behavior, or other characteristics. We may mistake some seemingly ordinary or mundane traits for special or attractive traits. 2. Social pressure: We may be influenced by others on social media or in real life. We are also prone to misjudgment when we see the people they like or associate with. This kind of social pressure can cause us to think the wrong way because we might expect others to think the same about us. 3. Emotional resonance: Sometimes we have a strong emotional resonance with others because we have met some similar people in our lives or when we read or watch novels, we see some characters who have similar emotional experiences with us. In this case, we may feel similar to others and easily have an illusion. 4. sexual attraction: In the novel, men may have a strong sexual attraction to the female protagonist and make them feel good about themselves. However, this did not mean that all women would be attracted by this kind of sexual attraction. Sometimes we might develop strong feelings for someone for other reasons other than sexual attraction. In summary, this situation may be due to our personal experience, emotions, cognition, and other reasons. No matter what the reason is, we should keep rational and clear-headed and not easily trust our feelings and intuition to avoid making wrong judgments and hurting other people's feelings.