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"I always care about other people's comments. Sometimes, I even impose my subjective imagination on others. No matter what I do, I feel that others are looking at me."

2024-09-18 09:15
I felt that others would deny me, but I didn't want to go against my own thoughts. I had been troubled by this question for more than two years. I had seen a psychiatrist before, but I felt that what he said had nothing to do with my illness. Hypnosis? It was simply nonsense. He was just a quack. Since I was young, I felt that I was a little neurotic. I was always very strong and always let my imagination run wild. When I was very young, I wondered why human breathing could be done automatically without the command of the brain. Therefore, I consciously tried to control my breathing, but the result was that it became more and more difficult for me to breathe, and I couldn't breathe. In the end, it was better not to think about it. Also, I remember that summer when I was in the second year of junior high school. I was in a supplementary class at an education and guidance center. That class was a physics class. I quite liked physics and admired the physics teacher very much. However, when I was listening attentively to the physics class, I suddenly had a thought. If I stared at the teacher so attentively, would he think that I was strange? I was deliberately looking at him or that I liked him very much?(Actually, I just admire my teacher very much. There's nothing else.) However, once this thought came out, I found that when I looked at him again, I always felt that he would think that way about me. Therefore, from then on, I didn't know how to look at other people's eyes to listen to lessons or communicate with them. When I looked at other people's eyes, I felt uncomfortable all over. I felt that other people thought that I was looking at him intentionally, but I felt very uncomfortable if I didn't look at them. I even wondered if other people would say that there was something wrong with my brain. Why didn't you look into my eyes when you spoke… From then on, my life changed drastically. I couldn't look at the teacher in class and could only lower my head to listen to the class, so my grades plummeted. I was in extreme pain and could only study hard after class and not communicate with others. Actually, I'm a very smart child, but because of this, I lost too much. Every day, when others had learned everything while I was still studying hard, I felt very wronged. Why should I work so hard behind the scenes? But I wasn't jealous of others. It was just that I gradually worried too much. I worked so hard after class, but my results were so average. Others would definitely think I was stupid. In fact, I rarely heard others say this, but I still thought that others thought so. Therefore, the effect of my self-study after class was also very poor. From now on, this vicious cycle will cause me to shrink back, hesitate, be rigid, doubt myself, and greatly deny myself no matter what I do. I believe that my actions are not within the scope of a normal person.
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This kind of situation often appeared in novels and was called glass heart or social anxiety disorder. This kind of plot usually appeared on the protagonist because they often had to face all kinds of pressure and doubts in social situations. In real life, having a glass heart and social anxiety can cause people to feel anxious, insecure, and depressed. To alleviate this situation, you can try the following methods: 1. Understand your own needs and desires. Understand what you really want and work hard to pursue it. Learn to accept criticism and opinions but don't pay too much attention to them. The important thing is to understand other people's point of view and not to impose your own point of view on others. 3. Cultivate confidence. Increase your self-confidence by improving your skills and knowledge or trying new things. 4. Maintain a positive attitude. Learn to see the positive side of life and try to find the source of happiness and satisfaction. 5. Seeking support. Communicate with family, friends, or professionals to get support and advice to help you cope with difficulties.

My Breathtaking CEO Wife

My Breathtaking CEO Wife

No one knows where he came from, however, those who have seen the real him only have one evaluation of him: A person who have signed a contract with the devil. People calls him the Demon King. However, only he himself knows how much he thirsts for tranquility. After entering an contractual marriage, his wife was as cold as an iceberg. This family was like a battlefield in Africa where they need to have everything going their own way!
3.5
5785 Chs
I Have A City In An Alternate World

I Have A City In An Alternate World

Tang Zhen transmigrated to an apocalyptic world, where humans struggled to survive in various buildings that they built because the ground was covered in lethal dangers that were invisible to the naked eye. Tang Zhen transmigrated along with his mutated cell phone that was packed with miraculous applications. There were all kinds of cities – some could fly in the sky, some could submerge into the ocean while some could become invisible – and shocking secrets were hidden within them. The power of Tang Zhen’s city was… He established a city and quickly leveled up his army with speeding tools. Then, he dominated this alternate world by seizing other cities. He sat at the very top. Beneath his feet was a vast floating city guarded by dragons and surrounded by angels. Countless cannons were also set up at various corners of the city. A million miles ahead, in the depths of the ocean, there was another city as large as a continent awaiting his conquest.
3.6
4833 Chs
Forced Marriage VIP Front-Seat: My Superstar Ex-wife is very Popular

Forced Marriage VIP Front-Seat: My Superstar Ex-wife is very Popular

Three years ago, President Qiao did not hesitate to sign the papers when Xia Ning placed the divorce papers in front of him. Three years later, she is an up-and-coming star in show biz; watched by the public but knee-deep in scandals. He is a resolute emperor in the business world; powerful and omnipotent. Their paths were supposed to be separate and independent, but— Standing at her door, the legendary ruthless and unyielding diamond bachelor asks for a remarriage. A cute bun appears from behind and gazes at Xia Ning with his big, starry eyes. "Mummy, Daddy will cook, I will warm the bed, please take us in."
4.4
3725 Chs
My Sweet Physician Wife Calls The Shots

My Sweet Physician Wife Calls The Shots

"Zhong Nuannuan, your charges have been withdrawn. The courts have declared you innocent and pronounced you not guilty for murder. You can leave prison now. Your family is waiting for you in the waiting room outside." Zhong Nuannuan was startled. She pushed the female prison guard to the side and ran toward the waiting room. She did not even bother to put on her shoes. If not for the icy feeling she felt at every step of the way reminding her that this was not a dream, Zhong Nuannuan would not have believed that she had resurrected. As she burst through the doors and saw him again, she knew in her heart, that this time she would get it right. This time she would cherish him properly and hopefully, just hopefully, turn her own fate around.
4.6
3693 Chs
How I Fell for My Hidden Marriage Hubby

How I Fell for My Hidden Marriage Hubby

She conspires and provokes the most powerful young master in Beijing! They sign a contract and with his every call, she has to go anywhere and do anything his bidding. When their contract ends, she smirks and said, “I’ll take the money and you can leave. We don’t owe each other anything.” He is Young Master Ya who rules Beijing. He controls the business empire during the day, and he is the strongest king at night. He is cold and women are merely playthings to him. With his power, the women he has eyes on have never been willing to leave him, yet she is an exception. She loves money, like all the previous women, but she is never shy of showing her greed. And he never realizes that he will ever grow a heart for such a promiscuous and cheap woman… He points a gun straight at her heart. “Die with me, or accept my love—which one do you choose?” She pouts and turns around, before she pushes an adorable child into his arms. “Here, there’s your answer.”
4.5
3483 Chs
I, The Female Protagonist With Superpower, Am Super Fierce

I, The Female Protagonist With Superpower, Am Super Fierce

She was born into an affluent family, but she was swapped at birth and got a different life. She grew up in a village. Just as she got the opportunity to transform her life, it got taken from her, and she was forced into a marriage to trade for a marriage for her mentally-challenged big brother. In the end, she died tragically. Gu Yan thought that if she could be reborn, she would make those who had bullied and insulted her regret everything! After being reborn with a superpower, her life became quite different. “With both the medical skill and the superpower, wastrels, shiver for me!” “Also you, handsome boy, I saved your life; shouldn’t you pledge to marry me?” Lu Ye smiled naughtily. “Of course. Just tell me, Yanyan, how many times do you want me to pledge per night?”
4.6
3225 Chs

Sometimes I feel that I have feelings after watching a movie or reading a novel, but when I want to share my feelings with others, I feel that I always say no.

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2024-09-23 13:21

This feeling is very common, especially when we read or watch a very touching or profound work. Our emotions and feelings may become very complicated and difficult to express accurately in words. This is a challenge of self-expression and communication because everyone's emotions and feelings are unique, so it's best to follow the following tips when sharing your feelings: 1. Choose the right time and place to share your feelings. It's best to share your feelings in private so that others won't feel uncomfortable or interfere with your feelings. 2. Try to describe your feelings in simple words. Try to describe your feelings in simple words and avoid using overly complicated words and sentences to ensure that others can understand what you mean. 3. Sharing specific examples and plots. Sharing specific examples and plots to help others better understand their feelings. Accept feedback and suggestions from others. Don't be afraid to accept feedback and suggestions from others. It can help you better understand your feelings and improve your way of expressing yourself. Most importantly, sharing your feelings is a good way to release your emotions and feelings, and at the same time, it can help others understand and resonate.

Why do I always feel that what I write is so different from what others write when I read what others write?

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2024-09-24 21:20

This was a very common problem for many. This could be due to many reasons, including but not limited to the following: High expectations: Many people think they should be better than others. However, this expectation may lead them to over-criticize and self-criticize themselves and feel that they are inadequate. 2. Many of them may not have experienced a similar creative process and thus cannot fully understand the difficulties and challenges that others encounter when creating. Different writing styles: Everyone's writing style is different. Some people may be good at narration while others are good at description. When you see others, you might feel that their writing style is different from your own, so you feel that you are not good enough. 4. A lack of confidence: Many of these may lead to a lack of confidence in themselves, thinking that they can't write better. 5. Not reading enough: Reading is an important way to improve writing skills. If you don't have enough reading experience, you won't be able to understand other things deeply, and you won't be able to find your own shortcomings in writing. In summary, all of these reasons can lead to feeling different from others. In order to solve this problem, he had to write more and communicate more to improve his creative skills.

My whole body feels unnatural when there are people around, and I always feel that others are looking at me. Is everyone's puberty like this?

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2024-09-18 20:26

This kind of situation did not happen to everyone during puberty. Puberty is a period of physical development and change. There may be some physical discomfort and unnatural feelings, but this does not mean that everyone will experience this situation. Some people may experience psychological discomfort during puberty, such as anxiety, nervousness, shame, or uneasiness. These emotions might affect an individual's behavior and perception, causing them to feel that someone was observing them. However, not everyone would experience this, so it could not be said that everyone would experience this feeling during puberty. If you feel uncomfortable or worried, it is recommended to seek help from professionals such as a psychiatrist or counselor.

Why do I sometimes feel that she likes me, but sometimes I feel that I'm a little too sentimental?

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2024-09-09 09:19

This feeling was very common, especially in a relationship. Sometimes we feel that the other person likes us, but sometimes we doubt our own feelings. This is because humans are very complex creatures. Our emotions and thoughts are affected by many factors, including our experience, culture, personality, environment, and so on. This was especially common in relationships. When we start dating, we may feel that the other party is paying attention and taking care of us, which makes us feel that the other party might like us. However, we may also doubt whether the other party really likes us because of some reasons such as our self-doubt, anxiety, distrust, etc. To solve this problem, we need to recognize that our doubts and uneasiness are normal. We need to trust our own feelings and trust each other's feelings. Through more communication and communication, we can understand each other's thoughts and feelings to determine whether they like us or not. At the same time, we can also reduce unnecessary doubts by increasing our confidence and charm to make ourselves more attractive.

I want to write a novel, but I always find that my plot is similar to others

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2024-09-09 21:14

When writing a novel, it was common to find that one's plot was similar to others, especially when it was hard to avoid the collision of inspiration in the plot and theme when one started writing. This kind of situation might cause the plot that he wanted to have to be very similar to the plot of others. To avoid this situation, you can refer to the following suggestions: 1. Stick to your own ideas: Writing is a creative process. You should stick to your own ideas even if they are similar to other people's works. Try to create a unique story from your own world instead of simply copying someone else's work. 2. Create unique characters: Every story has its own character. You should strive to create unique and unforgettable characters. Their backgrounds, personalities, and motives should make them different from other characters in other works. 3. Find your own theme: When writing, try to find your own theme and integrate it into the story. The topic could be about love, friendship, family, power, freedom, and so on. By exploring your own theme, you can create a more meaningful and unique story. 4. Multiple Revisions: During the writing process, you should revise and polish your work many times to ensure its quality and uniqueness. Modifications could include deleting useless content, rearranging the plot and characters, and making adjustments to the language and style. Hopefully, these suggestions will help you avoid discovering that your plot is similar to someone else's when writing. Writing takes time and patience. As long as you persevere, you will definitely create a unique story.

Why do I always feel sick every day? Sometimes I feel that I have a terminal illness and I don't have long to live. Moreover, no matter how I think about it, I really feel that something is wrong.

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2024-09-13 00:46

This could be a phenomenon of self-awareness error, also known as self-doubt or self-doubting. This situation may be caused by our inner contradictions and uneasiness, which makes us feel anxious and depressed. Self-cognitive dissonance can affect our mental health and happiness, so we can try to alleviate this situation by: 1. Seek psychological consultation: A counselor can help understand the cause of this situation and provide appropriate advice and treatment. Practice meditation and deep breathing: Meditation and deep breathing can help us relax and reduce stress and anxiety. 3. Build an active lifestyle: Maintain a healthy diet and adequate sleep. Regular exercise and avoid unhealthy habits such as excessive drinking and smoking. 4. Learn to relax and reduce stress: Relax your body and mind through music, art, reading, travel, and other means to reduce stress and anxiety. Hopefully, these suggestions can help alleviate the phenomenon of self-cognitive imbalance and improve our mental health and happiness.

How do I see others on my story?

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2024-10-03 14:42

You might be able to see others on your story by checking the notifications or interaction section. Sometimes, it'll show who has viewed or interacted with it.

Why do I feel like I hate each other when I look at each other when I'm in love? Sometimes I hate, sometimes I like. Is there something wrong with me?

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2024-09-21 05:35

This condition was not a disease but a fluctuation of love. In love, people usually experience a variety of emotions, including likes, dislikes, and dullness. When emotions become complicated, some people may feel uneasy or confused because their emotional state cannot be clearly expressed or controlled. This feeling could be due to uncertain factors in the relationship, such as the other party's behavior, personality, or emotional changes. It could also be because of the difference between people's expectations of a relationship and reality, causing emotional fluctuations. If you feel that this emotional fluctuation seriously affects your daily life or feel uneasy or confused, it is recommended to communicate with your partner to express your feelings and seek professional help.

Why do I always feel empty and lonely in my heart after watching a soap opera? I feel so lonely. Sometimes I envy that

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2024-09-16 19:19

Soap operas are usually a fictional form of entertainment filled with exaggerated plots, fake characters, and lengthy dialogue. When people watch soap operas, they tend to be immersed in the fictional world and ignore the real interpersonal relationships and social life in reality. After watching a soap opera, people will feel empty and lonely in their hearts. This is because there is a huge difference between the fictional world and the real world. People need to find a real sense of existence and satisfaction in real life. In addition, soap operas often lacked deep emotional communication and real interpersonal relationships. After watching soap operas, people would feel that they lacked the support and care of intimate relationships, so they felt lonely and lost. Sometimes people would feel envious of the fake characters and exaggerated plots in soap operas because they might yearn for similar exaggerated and false self-images to ease their anxiety and uneasiness. Although watching soap operas was a form of entertainment, it would also bring people a sense of emptiness and loneliness. People needed to find a real sense of existence and satisfaction in real life.

I don't like to tell others what I do, nor do I like others to ask me what I'm doing. I don't want others to know my background or bits and pieces! I love to press myself

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2024-09-21 12:25

It's a rather hidden personality trait known as the occult or the covert. Such people usually attached great importance to their privacy and were unwilling to share their lives and experiences. They also did not want others to interfere too much in their lives and work. In a novel, this trait could create a unique and mysterious character image that would arouse the readers 'interest and resonance. This character could move freely in his own world without being disturbed or restricted by the outside world, giving people a sense of independence, confidence, and security. However, the hidden ones would also face some challenges. If they were unwilling to share their lives and experiences, they might feel lonely and helpless. In addition, they might also miss some opportunities and resources because they were unwilling to disclose their information, because others might not be able to understand their background and background information. In the novel, the author could explore the inner world and values of the hidden characters by portraying them, so that the readers could resonate with the characters and understand whether their lifestyle was suitable for them. At the same time, the author could also lead the readers to think and discuss the challenges faced by the hidden people and how to deal with these challenges to trigger the readers to think and discuss personal privacy and interpersonal relationships.

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