Don't blame yourself too much when you encounter similar problems. In novels, this kind of situation is often called self-actualization anxiety, which is a very common psychological phenomenon. When we work hard to do something and put in a lot of time and energy but don't get the recognition and appreciation of the people around us, it's easy to develop self-actualization anxiety. This feeling will make us feel that our value and ability are not fully reflected, thus affecting our confidence and enthusiasm. However, we should realize that everyone has their own value and advantages, but sometimes we don't realize it or haven't been fully exploited. Even if we don't get the approval of the people around us, we should believe in ourselves and believe that our efforts and contributions are valuable. In addition, we can try to communicate with the people around us to seek their support and understanding. Maybe they didn't notice our efforts, or maybe they'd rather see the results than the efforts. Through communication and understanding, we can better connect with others and relieve our self-actualization anxiety. Finally, we should maintain a positive attitude and believe in our ability and value. No matter what we do, we should strive to pursue our goals and dreams and believe that we will eventually get the results we want.