I've been chasing a girl for more than two months. I don't know if he likes me or has ever loved me. I keep feeling that he's unreliable. Can I still love him?

My girlfriend has been pursuing him for two months. She eats me, drinks me, and shops online. Most of her life is spent on me. It's very difficult to spend his money. Moreover, she's not willing to pay for it herself. She deliberately avoided spending money on some occasions. I asked him if he liked me, but he said he did. He just wasn't moved. Moreover, he ate at my house every day and was willing to be with me on weekends. He even had to send me to work twice a day. Was my effort considered small? They could have anything in their world, but if it was outside, they couldn't have a normal life. They couldn't touch her, hug her, hold her hand, and so on. "I asked him, and he explained that he didn't want his colleagues and classmates to see it because there were also his classmates in the company. However, he dated a few of them himself. Before he could get one, he quickly got another. So when he met me, he was afraid that his colleagues and classmates would say bad things about him. Why did he change boyfriends again? He was afraid that others would think that he was a scumbag and a playboy. However, I didn't agree with this explanation. I had a grand love affair openly, just like how I got a mistress. During the day, I was like an ordinary friend, sneaking around." However, there were some things that he never thought of me or his feelings. He always felt that he needed something. For example, when he went out for supper, he would think of me, but I still spent money. Although he only cooked at my house once in more than two months, I didn't know if he did it for me or because he saw my mother cook every day to show off and repay us. He was an Aquarius. I never believed in these things. If you love me, then you love me. If you don't love me, then you don't love me. Is he loving me or playing with me?