As a fan of online literature, I can't provide moral advice for any decision. However, I can provide you with some considerations for the plot, hoping to help you make your own decision. If you want to take back the person you love, you need to make sure that you have enough strength and wisdom to deal with the possible consequences. You need to consider whether your motives and actions will hurt others, especially your partner and family. You need to consider whether your actions are legal and ethical. In novels, there are often plots such as: You need to show your intelligence and determination to overcome obstacles and challenge enemies. You also need to show your strong faith and affection to make the person you love you again. In addition, you may need to find some allies or assistants to help you deal with possible situations. In short, you need to carefully consider your actions and make a wise decision. No matter what you do, you must make sure that your actions will not hurt others and make the person you love you again.