Why was it said that there was a mountain between men and women, and a veil between women and men? But I think I'm the opposite, because I spent a lot of effort to chase my husband

In web novels, men chasing women were usually separated by mountains and women chasing men were separated by gauze. This meant that men usually needed to put in more effort and patience in pursuing women, while women were usually more successful in pursuing men. This is because society and culture have different expectations of women and men have different expectations of women. However, in fact, everyone was unique, regardless of whether they were men or women, they had their own unique personalities and ways of pursuing. Therefore, one should not simply judge based on gender, but should respect each person's choice and hard work, believing that as long as one sincerely gives, one will always get the result one wants. I understand that you once pursued your husband with great difficulty. This proves your courage and determination, and proves that your love is sincere. I hope you can continue to maintain this courage and confidence, believe in yourself, believe in each other, and live happily ever after.