Love is a complex emotion that contains many different elements such as intimacy, support, respect, understanding, trust, and loyalty. In real life, many people believe that love is the foundation of marriage, but not everyone can understand and accept this kind of emotion. If you already have your own love but your family doesn't approve of it, it might be a very challenging situation. The family's opinions may be based on their traditional views and expectations or out of fear of the possible consequences of marriage, such as financial pressure, family conflicts, and marriage breakdown. Even though your family's thoughts may not be in line with your values, you need to calmly consider their opinions and try to understand their thoughts and feelings. At the same time, you can also try to communicate with them to express your thoughts and feelings and try to find a solution that is acceptable to both parties. If you still want to pursue your love, although it may bring some challenges and difficulties, you still need to stick to your own thoughts and feelings. Love is a personal experience that only you can understand and enjoy. You can try to interact with blind dates to understand their qualities and characteristics and try to find a suitable partner for yourself. No matter what decision you make, you need to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude and do your best to prepare for your future.