Why was it not a good thing for a woman to be too obedient in marriage?

It was not a good thing for a woman to be too obedient in marriage because it meant that she lacked independent thinking and decision-making ability, unable to make her own contributions and choices in the family and marriage. When a woman completely listens to the suggestions and decisions of her husband and marriage partner, she may lose her own opinions and judgment, unable to make her own decisions in the family. This may cause the marriage partner to think that she lacks independence and autonomy and will not give her the respect and attention she deserves. However, when a woman was "obedient" in marriage, she might be seen as lacking in personality and independence, and thus be restricted and treated unfairly in marriage. This may cause her to feel restrained and unable to realize her potential, which may eventually lead to her dissatisfaction and disappointment with her marriage. In marriage, a woman should maintain her independence and autonomy, be able to make her own decisions, and at the same time respect and cooperate with her partner's needs and expectations. This would make the marriage more harmonious and equal, so that both parties could feel respected and valued.