I don't believe in online dating, but I find that my heart will throb for a netizen I've never met before

2024-09-14 12:33

I added him as an online friend in my first year of university. I've video called him once or twice. During my university days, I just treated him as an ordinary online friend and chatted with him casually when I had time. We also knew each other's cell phone numbers. He also called me once. Now, after working, I met him online once. We exchanged a few pleasantries and gradually regarded him as a friend. Because from his words, I felt that he was the kind of person who was very sincere to his friends. Later, he often sent me text messages. Slowly, I found out that he had recently broken up. His girlfriend's departure made him very disappointed. He loved his girlfriend very much. I also broke up, so I know the feeling of breaking up."I comforted him as a good friend, hoping that he wouldn't be in so much pain. Later on, we exchanged more and more messages. Sometimes, he even called me, but our conversations were completely like two good friends. There were no emotional problems involved. Now, we contact each other every day, and we chat very happily on the phone. Sometimes, he would always test if I would think of him. I would think of him, but I really didn't know how to answer. We were too far apart, and there wouldn't be any results." Can anyone tell me what to do? How can I tell him so that we won't hurt each other? I don't want him to be hurt again because of me! Who can tell me what to do?

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2024-09-14 14:48

Online dating is a complicated emotional experience that can come from many different reasons. Some people choose to seek companionship online because they feel lonely in real life or are eager to make new friends. Others might find people online who shared similar interests or values and establish deep friendships or relationships. However, the risks of online dating were also obvious. Due to the lack of face-to-face contact in reality, people could not fully understand the other party's personality, habits, cultural background, and other details. In addition, social networking on the Internet often lacked real-life interaction and communication, so online relationships were often not stable and healthy. For those who didn't believe in online dating, the reason why they would feel excited about a netizen they had never met before might be because they were facing a pressure to establish a complex emotional relationship or because they felt lonely and helpless in real life and needed to seek comfort and support on the Internet. In this case, you need to seriously consider your own feelings and goals, carefully evaluate your understanding and understanding of this person, and the possible future between the two of you. If you decide to establish a relationship with this person, you must be fully prepared and planned to avoid falling into a bad emotional trap due to lack of practical contact and experience.

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