In the poem Xue Baochai drew lots for the Dream of the Red Chamber, it was said," After Han Ling's success, he failed to live up to Nong Hua." What did he mean? What's the story behind it?

This poem in 'Dream of the Red Chamber' came from the story of Xue Baochai drawing lots. Xue Baochai was a cultured woman in Dream of the Red Chamber. She was good at poetry and had a deep understanding of historical allusions and the relationship between characters. The allusion of this poem came from Han Li, a famous general of the Tang Dynasty. Han Li was a famous general of the Tang Dynasty. During his reign, he had defeated many enemies such as Tuyuhun and Pugu Huai King. He was known as the "Tiger of the Four Garrisons of Anxi". However, before Han Li passed away, he left behind a poem that read,"Poor Han Ling, after his success, he failed to live up to Nong Hua." It meant that although he had made many contributions to the country, his wife did not receive his love and companionship. After Xue Baochai drew lots, she saw this poem and was deeply moved, so she wrote this sentence to express her feelings for the world and her thoughts on life. This sentence also expressed the unique status and role of women in the family and society, as well as their limited time and limited opportunities in life.