Mo Yan's " If Only You Know Me " was an essay that mainly talked about the author's gratitude to his mother. In the article, the author's mother was a simple, kind and hardworking person. She had done a lot for her, but the author did not understand her heart and thoughts. In the article, the author expressed his misunderstanding and dissatisfaction with his mother, thinking that she did not understand him enough. However, when he got to know his mother better, he found that his mother was actually a very outstanding person and her influence on him was very profound. Therefore, the author expressed his gratitude to his mother and believed that his mother had a very important influence on his growth and development. At the same time, the author also emphasized the importance of mutual understanding and communication between people. He believed that only when people truly understood each other's inner world could they truly establish a deep interpersonal relationship. In the article, the sentence "you will never be able to see the loneliest" expressed the author's deep feelings and thoughts about his mother. He believed that his mother's loneliness and loneliness were caused by his lack of understanding. This sentence reminds us that we may feel lonely and lonely when we are not understood by others. Therefore, we should care more about others, understand others, and establish good interpersonal relationships with others.